2007-08-24 18:17:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
If this is a serious question, you need to have your parenting license revoked!
2007-08-24 18:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
People are born with their sexual preference already when they're in the womb. No matter what you do, even if she had sex with a boy, if she were gay, down the line, it would still come out one day. There's nothing that can be done to prevent gayness. It's a fact, like brown eyes, or blonde hair or being tall or short. It's in the genes! You don't choose your sexual preference, it chooses you! Sorry Mom, that's the way it is! And if you're going to promote her having sex at a young age, better tell her about birth control and put her on it , or you'll have more problems than worrying about her being gay!
2007-08-25 01:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really hope that you're not serious! That is possibly one of the worst things I've ever heard!
If your daughter is gay then there is nothing you can do about it & any good parent loves their child do matter what their sexual orientation is.
As for wanting your 14 year old daughter to have sex, well... honestly I'm at a loss for words. No good parent would ever do that! EVER!!!
Worry less about your daughter being gay & go get yourseld some therapy. Since you have probably damaged your daughter already, maybe get her into counseling too.
2007-08-28 03:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at this age you cannot force anything on you daughter because then she will do it just to spite you. Just let her be at that age she will try to be different things so attacking her will not work especially telling her to have sex with a boy just so she would not turn out gay. just think of the trauma you will bring on her , so she would always remember you letting her have sex when shes 14 so that's not the way to go. Just let her find out what she wants at 14 you get confused but she will chose what she is comfortable with.
2007-08-25 01:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by firelord277 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm....no....
You honestly should be accepting of your daughter. You can't make her un-gay, you play no part in this. If she wants to be gay, then the best you can do is love her. If you don't accept it, you guys will just have a very crappy relationship your whole lives. Accepting it doesn't mean that you agree with it-because you don't have to. She is the same person that she was the day before she told you she was gay, that she is now. The only difference between then is that she likes a different gender-to me, it's like preferring a different hair color. If you support her, then she will respect you. Supporting her does not mean that you support her choices, but will make your guys' relationship a million times better. There is no worse feeling than dissapointing a loved one. She isn't choosing to be gay, she can't stop it, or just not be gay, so hating her for it will only make things worse.
2007-08-25 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Happy. Finally. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, what makes you think your daughter is gay? She is still so young and many girls that age are naturally more "attracted" to girlfriends. Boys can be so mean at that age that we females will bond with our own sex better. Second, at 14 it is absurd to even consider "letting" her have sex with a boy. Think this through and unless you have proof that she is having relations with her own sex, don't jump to conclusions. Even as we grow old, females seek the comfort of another female that has nothing to do with sexual attraction, rather comfort and understanding of female emotions. I hope this helps you.
2007-08-25 01:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with a boy at 14 is not going to change anyone's sexual preference. However it could land YOU in jail for aiding in the delinquency of a minor and have your daughter removed from your home altogether and placed into foster care for the rest of her teen years until she is an adult. You don't deserve to have children.
2007-08-25 21:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is 14 why is she so worried about her sexuality? She is only 14...it sounds like a threat to get her way. Look at who she has for friends. Could they be influencing her. Look at who you are. You are the parent. Be Wise. She has plenty of time to decide her sexuality 14 is not the age to be experimenting with who she will be.
2007-08-25 02:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by 4 eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't influence anyone's sexual preference and if you are serious about encouraging sex at 14 you are a discrace and should not have a child. you need to take care of your daughter and make sure she grows up happy and healthy, beyond that it is out of your control and should be. When she's 18 send her packing if she's not already gone with a parent like you.
2007-08-25 01:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is only 14. At least she wont get pregnant. I think she is not really gay just experimenting. Dont condone it but also dont make it to be forbidden as it will only make it more tempting. She would probably grow out of it. I see a better future for a gay girl than one who has a child at 14.
2007-08-25 01:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by momoftwo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to just take a chill pill. Under no circumstance should you let her have sex. You should discourage it until she is of age. Talk with her, maybe it's just a phase. She is young and it's only natural for her to be curious. Letting her have sex isn't going to help.
My suggestion is try to get her involved in clubs, sports, or activities that involve both genders. Let her decide for herself. You can't choose her sexuality for her.
2007-08-25 01:27:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋