hey guys.... I am a single and m in luv wid a married women. She is 4 years elder to me and wid a kid. V hv gud relationship btwn us. Proabably she loves her hubby more than me, as i've come to know so far. She does show her luv for me, bt shows 4 him also. I become vry jealous of dis. i miss her very much when shez nt arnd me. how shld i tackle dis situation and would it be wise to continue the relationship.....???
aakhir jeet kiski ho - DIL ya DIMAAG
2007-08-24 18:10:32 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am single and am in love with a married women. She is 4 years elder to me and with a kid. We have good relationship between us. At times, she gives more priority to her hubby than me, as I've come to know so far. She does show her love for me, but shows 4 him also. I become very jealous. I become jealous of the thought that she's gonna have sex with him as well as live with him. I miss her very much when she's not around. how should i tackle this situation and would it be wise to continue the relationship.....???
2007-08-24 18:21:21 · update #1
if the person is married, leave them alone - plenty of fish in the sea
2007-09-01 15:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not fall in love with married otherwise you and the other couple would destroy the integrity. It is no love but sex desire. You say you are in love with some girl. I am very much doubtful that how can you love a girl and at the same time love a married girl. It is just sex desire and if you get chance to have sex you would not marry either of them. Just not proper and shameful also.
2007-08-31 17:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get someone who is not married. That is wrong and how could you even be able to live with yourself if you broke up this family. I mean if she has a kid what will happen to the kid she'd have to go between 2 parents and thats not fair for the kid. Besides you deserve someone who is fully devoted to you and no one else.
2007-09-01 16:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by peaches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she's doing a wrong thing, she has a kid and she loves her husband. If you continue to see her you'll ruin her marriage, you must stop seeing her before the relationship becomes more serious. Besides it's not like she's going to divorce her husband for you, you said it yourself she loves her husband more. You're not only going to affect her life but her kid's life as well as her husband. You'll find someone else that's actually available and a wonderful person as well, I'm sure of it =)
2007-08-24 18:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude i will tell you one thing and take this DAMN serious in Life!
Sexual Misconduct is not the way of life!
It may seem like a bed of roses and flowery in the beggining but not at the end!
At the end of life it's the good deeds we must be looking to carry with us and not the bad deeds
Remember i won't tire saying this a Million times!
leave this for good!
remember the state of the husband if he come to know about this!
Put yourself in his shoes how would you feel if your wife did the same thing with others!
Abstain from Sexual misconduct (either by force or mutual understanding)--by buddha!
(for a better life here in this world or the other worlds's to come)
Pla leave this for your own good! and never repeat this in life!
Whatever i say may seem harsh but it is out of kindness and compassion for you i am telling this so that you don't go to woeful states!
2007-08-24 18:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by kiranraj.bangalore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do no longer fall in love with married or you and the various couple could wreck the integrity. it incredibly is not any love yet intercourse elect. you're asserting you're in love with some woman. i'm very plenty unclear that how are you waiting to adore a woman and on a similar time love a married woman. this may be slightly intercourse elect and in case you get danger to have intercourse you will no longer marry the two certainly one of them. truthfully no longer perfect and shameful additionally.
2016-10-09 05:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you might have feelings for this woman, but in reality its very unlikely that she would leave her husband to be with you, she will always love her husband despite what she may have with you on the side, its wise to just leave her alone so you don't get hurt, and you have to look at it from her husband's perspective too, what if you were him and you feel about her the same way you do now but she has someone on the side? wouldn't that be the worst feeling in the world....
Just consider that
2007-08-24 18:18:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the relationship.
you should quit while you are ahead.
you could be facing a serious a*s whipping or worse.
importantly, do you want to deprive the child of it's father??
do you plan to marry the mother.
a kid need it's real father.
leave it now.
sounds like this is all in your head.
move on and find someone of your very own.
2007-08-24 18:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never win her. She will always remain with her husband and kid.
Grow up man, you are just a fasicnation for her and a toy to play with. A day will come when she will break the toy and dump it in the garbage. Toys don't remain with anybody for a life time.
2007-08-30 15:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by satishfreeman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aakhir jeet give to your DIMAAG....you know why cause you are playing with somebody s life..? means you are going to brake somebody s home and heart....if she is rejected by her husband who is going to affect mostly is her and her kids ( if any)....for you it is only a infatuation or for the sake of sex...nothing else.....so please go away from her life...our community will not take it easy...(most of them are corrupted but when it comes about immoral affair sort of thing they all start to pretend as like MAHATMA..) so please don't spoil your / her self and your family s image....and of-course cause of your act your / her family members are also going to affect.
2007-08-26 01:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by 2bros 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personal have dipped into this same problem. you should not continue this relationship. the only thing that is good about an affair is no commitment. and from what i can read from this is that you need a single person that you can get a real relationship with. hope you find it
2007-08-24 18:18:05 · answer #11 · answered by David H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋