OKAY this is pretty complicated but i need advice .... okay i have this guy friend i met a while ago ... and ever scince i met him ... i liked him .. but wen my friend came back from her vacation .. they both started going out ... but she wasnt sure if she liked him or not...... a while later SHE broke up with him .. because she didnt like him anymore .... but she knew i liked him then .. and well ........know after like 2 months ... (i stilll like him) he likes me back ... like he REALLY likes me ) and im scared ... because even though my best friend said it was really okay with her ...... i dont know if she's telling the truth ..... she like teases me about him and everything but ... im still not sure .... now just today he asked me out what shud i say? imean arent like best friends exes of limits ?
2007-08-24 17:54:49 · 24 answers · asked by a girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh i didnt agree with my friend ... when she broke up with him ... because she thot it was kind of like he was caring toooo much..... ( and i wud luv that lol ) sotheres nothin rong with the guy he's sweet .. but my friend ... also thinks i shud o out with him . . because she thinks its her fault we arent going out ... but im still scared .. that mayb she just doesnt want to make me feel bad
2007-08-24 18:01:37 · update #1
he is not trying to get her bak .. lol because he doesnt like the way she treated their relationship
2007-08-24 18:03:13 · update #2
she even picked pick up lines to help him ask me out ... but still!?!?!?!
2007-08-24 18:39:35 · update #3
No, not if you wish to continue the friendship you have
2007-08-24 17:59:12 · answer #1 · answered by wesley_1971 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Friends exes or even some one they just slept with are OFF LIMITS!!!!!! Especially Best Friends. List I am 34 years old true friendship is hard to find. There are toooo many men out there. To have a real friend you have to first be one. How would you feel, be honest deep down inside you would not like it. It's too close to home sweetie. Treasure your friendship because guys come and go but friendship true friendship is hard to find. Most people only really have two maybe three real friends that last through their lifetime. Just something to thing about.
2007-08-24 18:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Regina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well she said she doesnt like him anymore but deep inside she still might have feeling with him. So talk to her again about it and make sure she wouldnt mind i mean she dumped him. But if she is your best friend and you really love her dont hang out with him around her because she might get jealous.So like i said see what she thinks about it in a second opinion and say that you want the truth and only the truth about it. And tell her that you dont wanna ruin there friendship. But i was gonna date my friends ex-boyfriend be4 and she didnt mind because she gets any guy she wants but i dont so she didnt care. So I hope i could help =]
2007-09-01 18:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't advise that to be a very good idea. Because even though they are not an item anymore, they still have history together and it will bring on bad feelings between you and your friend. No matter if she says that it wouldn't bother her, it will. She's a female. If her friendship is worth keeping then you better not risk it over a guy.
2007-09-01 15:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by lorraine197807 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1. Never date your best friend's ex. She may be all gung ho about hookin' the two of you up, but let's say that things work out really well for both of you. Someone being your best friend will end up hating you. You are a girl and you know this is the case. DO NOT DO IT!
2007-09-01 17:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, why can't you find someone new to go on a date with? That guy you girls are talking about must be so thrilled to have two best friends scrambling all over him by now. He must think it is ok to dump either one of you at one time because the other is waiting to go out with him. Get what I mean?
2007-08-24 18:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Hani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay kiddy let's see he was your friend first I don't know but you never mentioned if this girlfriend of yours ask you if there was anything between the two of you when she swept in and started her little fling! You know what I think if that is the case "What's good for the goose as they say is good for the gander" or whatever is he worth it in your heart if the anwser is yes.. THEN GO OUT WITH HIM FORGET YOUR GIRLFRIEND IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE FORGOT ABOUT YOU!
2007-09-01 17:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with number one's answer!
Never date a friend or bestfriend's ex! Don't even think about it! Its wrong in so many ways, even if they say its ok, don't its the wrong thing to do. Hes an ex for a reason.
2007-08-24 18:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Istis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u r really a true friend, u will not date him or have any type of intimacy wit him. even though she says she not interested in him well if they went out it was something she / he liked. yeah u might think hes cool but if he was real he wouldn't let it happen either. listen to ur heart and think about ur feelings and also ur friend feelings. cuz deep down she would care.
2007-08-24 18:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by tee2hot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 08:57:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you value your best friend, don't do it. Even if she is done with him, it will ruin your friendship. Remember you can always find another boyfriend but a good girl friend is really hard to find.
2007-08-24 18:00:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋