We havent been dating very long but are definately falling for each other. We arn't having sex, we are planning on waiting til marriage, The thing is I havent met the parents yet only because they found out I was 20 and immediately figured all i want is sex and dont want us to date...I am not like most guys I respect women very much. I have never done drugs, or anything bad in my life, but yet they wont even meet me. So..For the past couple weeks we have been dating but they dont know anything about it, So once again me being 20 and her 17 are we breaking any laws?? Please help asap!
2007-08-24 17:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by Corey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We havent been dating very long but are definately falling for each other. We arn't having sex, we are planning on waiting til marriage, The thing is I havent met the parents yet only because they found out I was 20 and immediately figured all i want is sex and dont want us to date...I am not like most guys I respect women very much. I have never done drugs, or anything bad in my life, but yet they wont even meet me. So..For the past couple weeks we have been dating but they dont know anything about it, So once again me being 20 and her 17 are we breaking any laws?? Please help asap! I live in Texas.
2007-08-24 18:06:34 · update #1
Thanks for everyones input, ill take everything into consideration, and I hope all goes well.
2007-08-24 18:07:14 · update #2
These kinds of laws vary from state to state. Check your local laws before there's any intimate contact.
Don't count on not getting caught, especially if her parents object to the relationship.
2007-08-24 17:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by DW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not having sex of any kind then no you are not breaking the law. If you are having sex then it depends on what state yo ulive in. It's crazy but states have different age of consent laws. Some states have it as low as 16.Good luck with the parents. I personally don't see anything wrong with a 3 year difference.
2007-08-25 00:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what state you live in. I know in Washington State it is legal for a 20 year old to have a relationship and/or sexual intercourse with a person 16 years or older, but once that person turns 21, they are only able to have relationships with 18 year olds or above. Google it with your state and see if you can find a law.
2007-08-25 01:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by TheHonorableReese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as far as I know you are not breaking any laws. from my understanding you have to be four or less years apart unless she is under 18 and you are over 21. The best thing to do would be call your local law inforcement and ask. If you are afraid to give your name , pretend you are a concerned parent and just say, I am calling to see about the age laws when it comes to relationships.
2007-08-25 00:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No thats not a bad thing at all its only 3 years.....I think legally the age for consensual sex anyway is 16 and thats only if they admit it was consensual..Since you aren't thinking about sex anyway I'd say just get to know her parents. What type of guy are you?? Are you doing things with your life? Show the parents that you are a good guy and worthy of their daughter. I think as long as you avoid them or don't meet them they'll think you are up to something but be upfront and in their face but show them what a great guy you are. I'm sure they'll love you in no time. If they see you are about something and doing something with yourself I'm sure they'll want a guy like you for her. Good Luck!
2007-08-25 00:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples2168 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not having sex, I don't know of any law you are breaking.
If you live in Texas, it's legal to have sex with a 17 year old.
2007-08-25 00:55:58 · answer #6 · answered by back from the dead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really unless her parents dont want ya to go out..
i was 15 & my bf was 18 when we started lving together.
the police couldn't do nothing cuz my parents agreed.
now i'm 17 & he's 20 & We're happilly married.. =D
2007-08-25 00:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by -->TeXas<-- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋