me and my boyfriend want 2 hve sex really bad but my moms always hme when he comes ovr. how can we..........?

Question

me and my bf tyler love eachother more than anything. And he comes over 2 c me every day. We've done a lot 2! Even things related 2 sex. And we actually wanna go all the way. How can I get him 2 sneak in my room without my mom knowing? Cause she caught him last time we tried that and he's been scared ever since. How can I get him 2 do it without her knowing? Sum1 please help!!! I wanna do it by 2morrow.

Answer 1

Please ask this question again when you are 18 years old.

Answer 2

First of all, if you're going to do anything, be sure you use contraception. And I recommend using two forms, say, a condom and film or foam, or something else (but not two condoms; they could break) because the failure rate on condoms can be as high as 3% or more. By using two forms of contraception the failure rate goes way down and is much safer. If you're young you're obviously not ready to have a kid.

Now you have to figure out what you're going to do to find a way to get away with this but be aware if you're under age and he gets caught again, he can be looking at prison time even though you wanted to.

Have you considered finding some semi-private place that is unlikely to be looked at? A house of some sympathetic schoolmate who can let you two go there? Or possibly some place where nobody goes, perhaps an abandoned house that you can sneak a mattress into. Or finding a parked car of a friend.

Answer 3

I'm guessing you are under 18.

No matter how much you "love" each other, you should wait until you are out on your own rather than showing your parents
1. You have no respect for them by breaking their rules
2. You can not be trusted (for the same reason as above)

If it is truly love then you should be able to wait. SEX is not something to be taken lightly or to be felt guilty about.

If you have any respect for your parents and you do this you will end up feeling guilty about doing this and it could lead down a bad path.

No matter what the consensus after the Clinton-Monica scandals, the things "related to sex" are considered sex in many situations and to many people.

If he is over 18 and you are under, then your parents COULD go to the police for statutory rape as well. In the eyes of the law, untill you are 18, you are a minor and sexual activity is illegal especially if the other person is over 18 at the time.

Answer 4

I know you might not want to read what I have to say but you are wrong for sneaking around. That will only gt you into trouble. How can you get respect from this guy when you don't even respect your self. How old are you anyways? You think he love you right? Tell him that you don't want to sneak anymore or have sex and see how much he come to see you. He might be sharing the things you do with to his friends. Don't be naive. You must be too young for that if your mom disapprove. respect yourself and your mom. What ever you do in the dark will come to the light. Sex is not that important young lady.

Answer 5

Sneaking around is never a good idea. If you believe you are adult and mature enough to be having sex, you should be adult and mature enough to talk to your parents. Especially because you need to protect yourself with birth control and condoms.
Now, they probably won't want you to have sex. But you really should let them know how you feel about your boyfriend and regardless, they should want to help you protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy.

Are you sure you are old enough and mature enough to handle sex? What if you have a baby (birth control isn't 100%, remember). How old are you dear? I hate when people restrict younger people because of their age, but judging by your typing, you sound very young. You don't need to have sex to prove your love, you know.
And putting a deadline isn't a good idea. It sounds like you are being rushed into it. Make sure sex is something you want for you, not just to please him.

Answer 6

What's so special about tomorrow? Are you trying to do it with him because you think he'll get it somewhere else if you don't do it. I don't really have any suggestions. When I was a teenager and having sex that I shouldn't have been having, I just waited until my parents went to bed and let my boyfriend in the front door. But I wouldn't recommend that.

Answer 7

Honestly, if you have to sneak around to have sex, you probably shouldn't be having it. You're confusing love with lust, dear.

At least wait until you're old enough to have your own apartment! Although by then, you'll probably have a new boyfriend.

You shouldn't be scared of your mom while having sex, either. God, you shouldn't be thinking of your mother at all. -_-; Those are just tell tale signs of not being mature enough or old enough to do the deed.

If you love each other, what's the rush?

Answer 8

I can't believe your giving yourself a time limit. No matter what you do...parents always have their lil ways of finding out. If you want to keep seeing this guy, wait till he either gets his own place or your own place. What you're planning, sneaking for sex, defies your parents' trust in you. And trust is something thats hard to earn back. Think before you act.

Answer 9

Sex is not that important. If you two love eachother so much then it can wait.
You may think you're ready, but I know you will end up regreting it. Especially since you're probably under 17 years of age. Wait until you're older.

Answer 10

lol That's actually funny! I was taking a childhood development class in school years ago, and one of the things it specifically mentions is to "Never tell the child 'wait until your father/mother gets home." When the teacher asked us if it ever happened in our homes, the girl next to me said her mom had been doing it for years, but her dad hasn't come home yet. We don't do that in our house though. My son thinks both me and Mr Dawna are equally evil.

Answer 11

First off Do not sneak him into your room or anyboy into your room. You should not have sex in your moms house period. you look likr=e a tramp and guys talk and you will get a bad reputation. and if you do wear a condom HIV is out there and if you are sleeping around well you know what the consiquences are a child or hiv how old r u? please dont tell me your in 8th grade.