this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn't communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?
2007-08-24 16:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by Mos Def 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her straight! hv more date with her!
2007-08-24 16:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by bec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After vigorously meditating on why she has been acting so strange or rather, not letting you know for certainty whether she likes you or not, or has not determined to let you know she likes you, I found out why this peculiar act might be occurring. I think it is because, first of all, both of you CAN’T even communicate with each other, WITH ALL YOUR RESPECT. Secondly, she might be thinking that you are buying her all these stuff, inviting her to places, etc. because you just like her physical NOT her real person; what’s inside. Finally, she might probably want to marry you but there are a few problems: She is a Mexican, you’re not; her whole family is Mexican; yours isn’t; she is poor, you’re not; she isn’t a citizen, you are; and she feels strange being in that situation especially when both of you can barely comprehend each other.
2007-08-26 10:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mutual Help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is weird. Well, if you like her I would take this as an opportunity to learn Spanish. It's not hard at all, it's Latin based so it sounds like English kind of. Go up to her and say this
Te quiero. Yo se que es un poco raro porque no hablamos la misma idoma, pero te quiero.
On second thought don't say that it means I love you i know it's kind of weird cuz we don't speak the same language but i love you. But my spanish sucks so go ask a national
2007-08-24 16:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If she has agreed to go out with you before you bought her clothes, she probably likes you. Plus, if she can't speak English, then she probably doesn't get to talk with a lot of guys, and appreciates your time and effort.
2007-08-24 16:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by chika77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit living in a fantasy world. Find a real girl.
2007-08-24 16:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you put some of that money you're spending on her into a solution to the language barrier - it sounds to me like she likes you. Despite what the commercials show, women don't generally kiss guys for buying them clothes and jewelry - unless they like you otherwise.
2007-08-24 16:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by JVar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
learn spanish lol buy ingles sin barreras and you can learn spanish and she can learn english lol.Maybe she likes you since she kissed you
2007-08-24 16:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are her meal ticket..atleast until her real boyfriend gets out of jail
2007-08-24 16:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes you
2007-08-24 16:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no hablio ingles.....
2007-08-24 16:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by AskMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋