i asked her out and she said she dont want a boyfriend right now..... does she mean it or is this her way of saying no?
2007-08-24 16:03:25 · 43 answers · asked by ٩(̾●̮̮̃̾•̃̾)۶ Gatorade 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, i said that to a guy a few days ago, and I meant it. Sometimes girls say that and can either mean it, or is just a nice way of saying that you're not her type. Trust me, compared to the other things I've heard, that's one of the nicest possible brush off a girl can give a guy.
You have to accept it. Deal with it. Move on and know that someone out there is meant for you and it's not her. She'll die not knowing the good side of you. Good luck on finding the right one.
2007-08-24 16:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
You Haven`t Been FULLY Rejected Yet.
Soo Maybe She`s Confused Or Maybe She Just Really Dont Want A BoyyFriend Yet.
Give Her Some Space.
2007-08-24 16:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by iiLOVEtorz. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is actually a way of saying the truth. She has been approached by many other guys and you just happen to fall into the same category. Unfortunately, she may be refusing a good guy, which may be you. So, you can try later on down the line if any signs arise if you two meet again or interact.
If all else, move on.
Good Luck
2007-08-24 16:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by Incredible2k6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel bad to tell you this but I'm honest. I think this is her way of saying no.
You only asked her out, that doesnt mean she will automatically be your girlfriend. If she doesnt want a boyfriend now fine, but she could have gone out with you. A dinner or a coffee wont make you bf and gf.
2007-08-24 16:14:49 · answer #4 · answered by irine hrh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she doesn't want a boyfriend right now and I bet you that tommorrow you will see her with a guy. You can even get lucky and get a woman, only to learn that she is a skank and is putting out to 5 other men at the same time. You call her up and a guy answers the phone and screams at you saying he is going to kick your asss and to stop talkin to her, all when she said that she wasn't seeing anyone and you were the only one. Happens to me.
2007-08-24 16:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her way of saying no either because she doesn't want a boyfriend or because she doesn't want you. The reasoning shouldn't matter because it's her reasoning, what should matter to you is helping yourself to feel better right now. Be good to yourself, watch a dirty movie or something. Your going to be okay.
2007-08-24 16:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarly a few times a guy that i have liked asked me out and i told him i didnt want a boyfriend but i still liked him maybe she doesnt want to get in a commited realtionship yet and if it was rejected then lift your head up high theres always other girls
goodluck
2007-08-24 16:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by becca j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means what she said, "I don't want a boyfriend right now."
No matter what, she doesn't want to go out, so move on.
2007-08-24 16:08:23 · answer #8 · answered by Freddie Dearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's her way of telling you, she's not ready for a relationship. either pounce on her when she breaks up with a guy or move on. or ask her out in a year if she still hasn't had a bf and you still have some sort of feelings for her.
if you really want to pursue it... be her good friend, and slowly break down her physical barriers by flirting with her - footsie, nudges, etc.
2007-08-24 16:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pick your self up and you move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go ask another girl out. When you get rejected don't dwell on it. move on from it.
2007-08-24 16:10:00 · answer #10 · answered by Handsome Rob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋