ok, im 15 years old i turned it on aug 16th on august 19th i had sex with a 19 year old guy(help!)?

Question

ok im 15 i had sex with a guy who is 19 he is married to a pretty stuck up ***** they fight all the time ive known the guy since i was 10 and ive always had the biggest crush everrrr on him.
they have a son named Darrion i love to hang out with he is 9 months old and funny as heck. he had sex with me(i was a virgin) the 19th and then on the 22nd while his wife wasnt home
how wrong was it??
we both liked each other and ou familys are close
his mom rents a house from my mom and ive been pretty much close to his family foreverrrrr it seems i love him(not in the OMFG ILY way) but love him as a best friend so is it wrong if we have sex hee and there?
he'll be 20 august 30th so it's legal for a few more days PLEASE ANSWER?!?!??!?!?!?
and no he didnt use a condom durrr but he is smart enough to pull out.

and i f*ckin know i can get pegnant.
but rlly how wrong was it?

idc i dont want him to divorce her i just love him as a friend no more thn tht and we both just had a gd time
and hes in the army they test for tht **** so he aint got any god dam STD's.

Answer 1

#1 not using condom--just plain STUPID. You can still get pregnant because sperm exists even in precum, so pulling out is no guarantee.

#2 STDs? Ever heard of them. They are the primary reason you should use a condom, unless you'd like to die from AIDS

#3 If he's slept with you he's cheated on his wife plenty of times before. Don't be a fool.

#4 He just wanted a virgin. He's using you.

#5 Of course, it's wrong. Would you like your husband or boyfriend to cheat on you. Think about it! You're as guilty as this guy is.

#6 It's illegal. He's over 18.

Answer 2

This is totally wrong in so many ways.
1. He is a married man regardless of his age
2. You are only 15 and sex should be farthest thing from your mind
3. By not using a condom you are risking far more than pregnancy. Army don't test daily for STD's and it's not likely you are the only person besides his wife that he is likely sleeping with.
4. You are not the only child involved here to be hurt
5. This man has problems and issues to deal with , needs professional help
6. You could benefit from some professional help if you can't see and know that this is WRONG! WRONG! WRONG! and that it should be ended NOW!

Answer 3

First of all baby and I mean Baby you still have a long way to go you don't want to be used up by the time you become of leagel age at the rate you're going by the time you are twenty one its not a man in the world that will want you by the time you're twenty five you'll need a hysterectomy for letting old men use you and that's what old men do they use you. As far as the wife being a ***** that's bullshit a married man tell you what he thinks you want to hear so he'll tell you she's this and that so you'll feel his supposedly pain, but if she's so bad why is he still with her?Men leave children everyday he can have visitation.

Answer 4

Ok, I'm not sure if this is a troll, hopefully it is. If he is 19 and going after 15 year olds I'm sorry to tell you but that is just not normal, in fact that is sick. He already has a kid, I would stay far away from this guy, there is definitely something wrong with him, I'm 22 and if I knew a 19 year old having sex with 15 year olds I would report him to the police, no it's not legal.

You need to be with guys your age and not involved with someone who has a kid, your 15, you definitely don't need that sort of drama in your life. And men ejaculate many times during sex in small amounts and any of those can make you pregnant. that would just be great being 15 and being pregnant to a 19 year old who is married and already has a kid. Stay the hell away from that guy, that's just creep and sick, do you plan on being with 15 year olds when your 19? I hope not. think about that.

Answer 5

Honey you need to get out of this now. You are setting yourself up for hurt. You are thinking that you could get pregnant and in fact there are other things worse then a baby you could end up with Like STD's. He will not leave his wife for you and he does not have your best interest at hand. I know this may be something that you do not want to hear but it is the truth. This is not a healthy, safe relationship and there are other BOYS your age that you could have something more meaning ful with. I am not going to tell you not to have sex because I was sexually active at your age as well. I will tell you that if you are going to have sex then make sure you are protecting yourself and your body. It is the only one you will have. And if you can not take care of a baby, mentally, physically, emotionally and financially then you may dear should not be doing anything that you could end up pregnant.

Answer 6

Wow.

Yes, it is very wrong, but no, you shouldn't kill yourself over it.
This kind of relationship is dangerous because...
1. He's cheating on his wife.. so, he's making you his mistress.
2. He can go to jail because he is over the age of 17.

You need to end this sexual relationship.

If you two love each other so much, tell him to divorce his @#$%# of a wife and marry you. If not, he's using you.

++ Even though you know that he pulled out, take a pregnancy test just in case. It would be terrible if you got pregnant because of precum.

I hope it ends well.

If you don't want him to divorce his wife, then have sex with someone else.

Answer 7

for one thing girl you are 15 and he is 19 married and they have achild there is three stricks against you and if he cheated on her he will do the same to you once a cheater always a cheater. You need to leave him alone and dont breck up a family that child needs both of them and you need to stick with someone your own age. Dont try and grow up too fast enjoy your life while you can. And you said he didnt use a rubber even though he pulled out some sprum can still get in there and you are too young to have a child.

Answer 8

Your youth shows. Here are the facts: He is married, so YES it is absolutely wrong for you two to be having sex. I am not trying to be a smart ***, but here is how the covenant of marriage works: See, the wedding part is all for us humans, the promise is to God acknowledging that you know He gave you this person to walk this life with and you will honor Him by loving your mate and being loyal to them and through his will you walk your entire life with this person, for better or for worse. Now I will say, given your age that you may be partly wothout blame, but gievn the fact that you clearly know right from wrong, and yes, this is SO wrong, you need to stop now. He is also a father and has wife may be a b*****, but she is HIS WIFE, and you are a wayward child who needs to stay out of an adult relationship. I always say, ask yourself how you would feel if this was done to you. Or in your case, how would you feel if your father was having an affair on your mother? Could you justify the mistress's position? Wise up, buttercup.....Oh and P.S, HE IS TOTALLY USING YOU. ASK YOURSELF, WHAT PRACTICAL PURPOSE WOULD A MARRIED FATHER HAVE FOR A TEENAGE GIRL. UNLESS HE CAN CLAIM YOU ON HIS TAXES AS A DEPENDENT, HE JUST WANTS WHATS IN YOUR GOODIE BAG.

Answer 9

of course everything about this is wrong, and it is not legal for a few more days if he is 19 going on 20, 18 is legal and illegal for having sex with a child and illegal for having sex with someone other than his wife, wrong and illegal, and as for the no condom but smart enough to pull out is totally stupid, idiots, there is always that little drop that gets out and that is where peps like you come off with we had every precaution not to get pregnant, I dont know how I could have gotten pregnant and so on. And are you looking for an excuse to do it again by asking us, its your decision to continue idiot.

Answer 10

It is normal to want to date him, but remember he is legally an adult and you are still legally a child no matter how you feel about each other. 15 is still very young and you should reserve your innocence until you are old enough to really handle it. 19 is old enough but you have your high school years ahead of you and you do not want to float through them without really enjoying the experience. You will regret it later on. I would really consider keeping the relationship fun and keep things light. You may think you can handle a serious relationship and maybe you can, but save that for when you are older. It will be more full filling and you will be mature enough to really enjoy it.