so whenever i meet a guy who i can easily talk to and makes me laugh i immediately become hooked on thim (litearlly can't stop thinking about him). is this because i'm desperate?? thinking that since i can talk to this guy he will like me too? or am i just attracted to nice guys?
i don't start liking whoever i talk to, just ones who make me laugh. is this normal? i'm 15 and don't want to be one of those desperate girls who will ike any guy that hints at liking her. i just like to give the guy a chance. this is a good thing right???
2007-08-24 13:44:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me correct you. You are not attracted to nice guys, you are attracted to any guy who shows an interest in you. That is a sign of loneliness and a strong need of attention, love and etc. Be careful, just because a guy makes you laugh, it doesn't mean he is a nice guy and worth of dating. Be picky!
I have been in your shoes and then eventually got it over after one serious relationship. I think girls feel this way when they never had a serious boyfriend and they feel that they lack of something when other friends are having relationships, and they are not.
2007-08-24 13:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving a guy a chance is a good thing. And its not really that weird, for your age, to like someone who makes you laugh. You're not desperate, I hate to say it, but you're just easy. But if you do want to make sure that you like the guy, see if they can keep yo ulaughing for a month =) remmeber to try pinpoint the negative side.
2007-08-24 13:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exact same thing with me.. only there is this one guy EVERYONE says likes me .. but I still don't have the guts to ask HIM.
I don't think either of us are desperate, I could care less about having a boyfriend, I just like a lot of boys. lol!
2007-08-24 13:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not think that you are desperate. sounds like you know what you want in a relationship and if you are able to find it then pursue it. if you find that you think you are desperate, find more than those two reasons alone for you to like someone enough to think about them all of the time
2007-08-24 13:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by longhorn06champ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you aren't desparate yet. you may get there though if you don't relax. you love the fact that they are easy to talk to and that's important in the start of a relationship. just let it go the way it goes. he may find you easy to talk to as well but that doesn't mean he likes you like you like him. just let the feelings take it's own course and just be friends.
2007-08-24 13:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are a very trusting girl too,,,and therefore you are easy to influence....That does not make you desperate....I think it makes you more open minded than anything....
2007-08-24 13:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang. this sounds EXACTLY like me. i hope we don't seem too desperate though, lol! good luck with everything, i hope you find the answer your looking for.
2007-08-24 13:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both. But don't despair... you will learn how to handle these feelings as you mature.
2007-08-24 13:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him and you will see if he likes you or not.
2007-08-24 13:50:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're 15, stop worrying and just go have some fun.
2007-08-24 13:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋