I have a question for you guys... When you finally score with a girl that has the total physical package ( nice big butt, boobs, nice waist,etc) but not relationship material, then what happens? Do you keep sleeping with her and dating other girls or just leave her and look for the next total package? Im curious because i think this one guy is only obsessed with my physique....lol...always talking about my ***..ughh!
2007-08-24 12:11:27 · 29 answers · asked by *~*_BELLA_*~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not full of myself! I actually dont even like my butt being so big. I hate that its all some guys want! This is why i said it was for guys only. I would post a pic but then girls would be dissing me! The guy im with is not a friend with benefits...im serious about him but i dont know how far he wants to go with me... i just think he comments too much when we're not even doing it and makes me feel like a piece of ***. I should have to read mean comments when youre supposed to be helping me. This is serious and not some joke. I will report abuse on your ***!
2007-08-24 12:36:53 · update #1
No way. She needs to be real and fun to be with. This is really true, no matter what guys say.
Of course, guys will always compliment your ***. That's a given. I have been saying that to my wife for 20 years and it still has the same meaning.
Your instincts are smart. If you feel it is a fake relationship, it probably is, and the guy doesn't want to be serious like you.
2007-08-24 12:21:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gutt feelings. Now one question. If all the time you guys are together, does he hang with you for just being with you or is it always a physical thing.
When I have been in a situation where a girl has thought it was purely physical, I made it a point to wait til she made the first move. that way she knew it was all her and I wasnt there for just the sex. Men will always for the most part use a girl cause she is more of a trophy and he is getting the "milk" for free. Having thier cake and.......you know........til something serious comes along.
2007-08-24 19:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by tattoo_dragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! This is a good question. I would say if she is not the relationship type then you might want to move on. Look's are'nt everything it also counts about how much she likes you and if she wants to get serious. And I do not appreciate the person who said guys are pigs. I am a devoted lover boy to one girl. She is hot and nice!:-)
2007-08-24 19:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as the total finished package IMO I'm sure other blokes will disagree though however,no I probably wouldn't keep sleeping with her unless of course she wasn't serious either and was just using me like I was her.
2007-08-24 19:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by voodooelectric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest though that in a nonconfrontational way ... meaning the next time he comments on only your physique, you ask him what else he likes about you. If it really is all about the sex for him, you will know from the on the spot question and his answer.
2007-08-24 19:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
... what makes her "not relationship material" ?? ...is she dumb as a box of hammers?? ...is she just a horrible person with a lack of morals? ... racist? ...serial killer?? ...just plain crazy??
If a gal lets a fella have sex with her - and continues to invite him into her bed... I don't see what the problem is.
You apparently KNOW that you & this guy aren't more than f*-buddies... so it's not like he's taking advantage of you. If you want more than just this physical relationship ... then move on and find someone else who'll give you what you want.
2007-08-24 19:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Eric C 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, what makes you think you aren't relationship material for him? but if some guy always talks about your body though, he seems like hes only interested in that.
For me it would depends on what exact the issue is with you, I certainly would not comment on your body other than when we're having sex.
2007-08-24 19:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by hockeyfreak 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is more than the physical package, I stick around.
If there is nothing under the package, I move on after a while
2007-08-24 19:15:50 · answer #8 · answered by fretochose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before i "score" i need to know if there is more than just a physical attraction and that the possibility exists for a long term relationship --- if after there is not then we both know it and part amicably
2007-08-24 19:19:53 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'r so arrogant, but no. If I ever, go out and sleep with someone it'l be because I sincerely love them, not becuse of they're "Package"
2007-08-24 19:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by Ale! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋