I just asked people whether or not I should send this letter. Why should I ask him to send it back to me. Why should I be so cautious? Do guys really go and show all of their friends letters from girls they met?
2007-08-24 12:09:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Emily R
S Can you trust a guy with a letter.?
I just asked people whether or not I should send this letter. Why should I ask him to send it back to me. Why should I be so cautious? Do guys really go and show all of their friends letters from girls they met?
If you want to know what I want to write in the letter look at the question I just asked: "Should I write this guy a letter?"
Thanks for your imput so far.
2007-08-24 12:24:44 · update #1
I would NEVER trust a guy with a letter unless I was serious with him, and especially if I was still in highschool (it sounds like you may be) It is a very explosive situation and guys at that stage love to share things because of their growing egos! lol
2007-08-24 12:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you write in the letter. Is it something you don't care if it gets into the wrong hands???
If not, DON'T SEND IT.
Also, it kinda depends how old the guy is. If he's immature like a teen (19 and under), then you shouldn't send it.... If he's over 20, there's a good chance he wouldn't show anyone.
Either way... I think that you shouldn't send it. Maybe do a phone call... or meet him in person.
=)
I never trust guys with letters/e-mails. lol
2007-08-24 19:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by PaperHeart59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not call him or meet up with him? letters are never good. my bf told me the craziest thing his ex did was write him a letter confessing her love for him after they broke up. if you like the guy, go talk to him. A letter is chicken and can be used as blackmail! if the guy isn't interested in you, MOVE ON! there are many guys out there, so go find on who is interested in YOU
2007-08-24 19:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by girlygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or.. you could just TELL him whatever the hell it is, instead of being a wuss and writing a letter. If he's going to tell his freinds, he will, but it will be only hearsay. What exactly are you writing to him that's so embarrassing you worry he'll show it around, anyway?
2007-08-24 19:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He'll show it to all of his friends and they will make fun of you for the REST OF YOUR LIFE.
I'm totally serious. Just tell him whatever you want to in person. You can always deny that you said something, but with written proof, it's inevitable that something gets out.
2007-08-24 19:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i do not show anything to anyone --- well i would show my partner but that is it
2007-08-24 19:31:23 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋