how can i be confident bout myself.??

Answer 1

Get a boob job

Answer 2

We are all human and have flaws. Even if your physical appearance, intellectual ability, or social skills aren't what you wish they were, that doesn't have to stop you from being confident. You are beautiful inside and out so you should love yourself unconditionally. Here's how to believe in yourself.

Make a list of special talents you have, or of things you do that are good—morally or otherwise. Focusing on your attributes helps distract you from those parts of yourself that you think are flawed. It doesn't have to be a specific skill or activity either; it can be an approach or an attitude that you champion through life. Do you always stay calm, cool and collected, even in harried situations? Are you very patient with people? Do you always see the humorous side of things? Are you always there for your friends?
Find your passion. Whether it's baton twirling, martial arts, classic cars, or basket weaving, you will feel confident pursuing that endeavor by recognizing what you enjoy doing the most. More importantly, you'll be enjoying your progress.
Choose a role model, whether someone close to you, or someone famous. Think of the qualities that the role model displays, whether physical, emotional, moral, and/or spiritual. Work towards acquiring those.
Accept compliments gracefully. Don't roll your eyes and say, "Yeah, right," or shrug it off. Take it to heart and respond positively ("Thank you" and a smile works well).
Know that you have important things to say and do. When you feel strongly about something, speak loudly and clearly and make eye contact with people. Be yourself.
Take care of yourself. Eat a healthy diet and get enough exercise. Don't abuse your body, don't overload it, and don't deny it any of the things it needs. At the same time, don't obsess. Buying all the moisturizers, creams and conditioners will not bring you closer to who you want to be. Those things are only band-aids and make up. Confidence comes from within. Take the time to reflect on your life and do some emotional maintenance. In order to be confident, you must value yourself and understand that your well-being is important.
Stick up for yourself. If people put you down (and not in a good-natured, joking way), then let them know that their opinion of you is not held by everyone--most of all yourself. This may, at first, be hard to do. But once you stick up for yourself a few times, your confidence builds and you get more adept at it.
Celebrate your individuality. If you know you've got something special or different, then embrace it—don't hide it! That's diversity! You may wish that you were taller, or shorter, skinnier, stronger, whatever the case may be. But you need to realize that, if you were like everyone else, then you wouldn't be who you are. "What am I?" you ask; the answer's easy: You're a unique individual who is capable and growing and learning.
Take action. It is surprising how powerful the simple step of taking an action can be. And the action you take need not be something extravagant or grand. It could be something as simple as tackling a task that you have been procrastinating, such as writing a letter or tidying up that corner of the garage that has been out of control for the last several months. It could also be something as interesting as taking a class in yoga, art, interior design, anything that interests you that you haven't done yet. Whether large or small, action brings with it exhilaration, enthusiasm, and the confidence that other things can be done as well.

Answer 3

There's only one way to be confident and that is, forget about everything else. It doesn't matter what other's say everyone is special in their own way. If you stop caring about what other's think you'll become confident. Remember you are a child of God and as one you are really worthy so walk on the streets and enjoy the world. Conquer your fears, be a good person and God will take your weakness and turn it into strength

Answer 4

Picture yourself in a situation where you don't feel very much self-confidence. Make it into a movie (like picture yourself walking into a crowded auditorium about to give a speech or something.) When you picture yourself in that situation you should start to get that feeling of lack of confidence. Feel where it goes. Does it travel down your body and back up again? Does it start at your toes, and then surge up again? Learn where that feeling goes and then close your eyes. Now take that same movie in your head and run it backwards. Reverse how the feeling moves. When you get that feeling again, feel yourself reversing that feeling. Try it out, it works in a lot of cases.

When you wake up in the morning, don't start the day by thinking about the things you have to do. Do that the night before and write it down on a list. Before you read that list the next day, spend an hour thinking about the things you want to accomplish, and picture yourself doing it. Don't just want it. See yourself doing the things that you want to accomplish. Take on that feeling of accomplishment before you have done it.

Answer 5

i believe you are or your not, some people are norm, some are like you, some are like me, most are ok with them selfs. Some think there the ****. Like me i have an ego prob. Im the best thing in my world. Its all about how you see yourself. I guess if you wanna feel better, look at yourself, see what you dont like and change it. Or be like my wife get a hare cut get your nails done. The cheers her up

Answer 6

You just got to think and know that you are the best. You have to love yourself. Sometimes situations come in your life that make you feel down, but you just have to let that go. Love yourself because if you dont no one else will.

Answer 7

You cant just decide to be confident one day. You have to do things that make you feel confident and surround yourself with good things.

Answer 8

Don't focus on your flaws instead emphasize on and continue to improve your strengths. Accept yourself for what you are good and bad. Feel sexy, feel confident and other will see you the same way. Best of luck
Chastity

Answer 9

make plans and achieve them. Your confidence will be built upon real accomplishments. Any other kind of confidence is shallow and easily broken.

Answer 10

for one, you can put an "a" in front of "bout".


then just forget about what people think of you. its not like their thoughts are going to kill you. you're still gonna live, regardless. just pretend that you're above everyone and the world is yours.

Answer 11

treat yourself. go to wikihow.com and search engine there on confidence. lol. try being patient with you.