There's a nice guy at them gym, he's gorgeous looking. I was just getting out of my car and walking in to the gym when he walked past and gave me a really nice smile, I smiled back....
That was about a month ago? I haven't saw him until tonight....
I walked in the gym and he was talking to some guys, he looked up, smiled and said hey!! or Hiya, something like that...
What does it mean? He's gotta be about 22 or something, and guys that young aren't normally that mature, confident and nice.
Is he just a nice guy do you think? Or does he fancy me?
2007-08-24 10:38:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's gorgeous, but if next time I say something like...Good workout? What if I flirt with him and he's only being friendly? He'll think I'm a freak!
2007-08-24 10:42:34 · update #1
there's nothing wrong with a friendly flirt ;-)
even if he's not interested romantically. just see where it goes.
2007-08-24 10:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by Green Is Sexxxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble since you seem into him, but then it probably just means nothing but a simple hello. He's probably just being a nice person. If he starts making a move, like maybe asking for your number or trying to be friends with you and you sense that there's something there..Then I guess the answer is pretty obvious. But as of now, just don't expect anything..
2007-08-24 10:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be either way. I know when I'm at the gym I smile and say hi to the people that I see there regularly. But its been a month since you last saw him, and he did stop talking to his friends so he could say hi to you. I'm leaning more to the side that he fancies you.
2007-08-24 10:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Brian F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
*That's great he said hi to you, especially considering he was around all of his buddies. Normally guys usually won't talk to a girl when their buddies are around...but hey you must have done something right, for him to just yell "hey" to you in the gym :)
*Good for you.*
.I think the next time you get a chance, and you see him, just walk up to him and be like:
"Hey how have you been?"
THEN he will respond...then say:
"Nice....(or whatever) and then be like..."Well it was nice talking to you, I'll see you around!"
...then casually walk off and bust out on the treadmill or something and just do your thing and workout.
I think he'll find that appealing, I mean think about it like this...YOU walked up to him and initiated a short conversation, then you thanked him for his time basically and said..."I'll see you around."
.....hmmm.......you'll seem sort of mysterious, and he might be inclined to come up to you next time and ask you out to dinner or something...because he'll want to figure you out.
......So yeah....I think he's saying hi to get your attention, and he must fancy you or else he wouldn't even bother.
...go for it. be yourself.
.....and don't forget to smile :):)
2007-08-24 10:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by Murphy's Law 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely flirting with you. Next time say hi to him as you walk by or if you're brave enough strike up a conversation.
2007-08-24 10:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by mergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think he probably likes you. Next time you see him and he smiles and speak. Go up to him and ask him how he's doing? or his name? Or just say something out the way to get his attention like: Dang, we just keep bumpin' into each other.... blah blah blah. U know gurl just be creative
2007-08-24 10:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its just a hi, dont read to much in it. How can you determine maturity by a simple "hi". Just respond back and if he do like you maybe he will aproach you, if not maybe he was just being friendly
2007-08-24 10:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by daddynard1010 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a nice guy. Only time will tell if there is something more.
2007-08-24 10:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go on the treadmill, wait about 2 minutes, then turn round quick- if he's staring at your **** he probably likes you...
I can't say ****? Damn you Yahoo, thats not a swear word, it's a vital body part!!!
2007-08-24 10:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by miserable old git 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is interested, more than likely.
But, you don't go chasing him. Wait for him to come to you.
If he is interested in you then he will hopefully have the guts to come over and talk to you, ask your name, get your phone number, etc.
2007-08-24 10:47:32 · answer #10 · answered by ala pb&j sandwiches 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋