i need help with my boyfriend. we have been together just over 9 months but he is becomin slightly agressive with me and were not as close as we used to be. we were extremley close just befor the summer and when he went away for 3 weeks i missed him like crazy. wen he came back he started to be aggressive as in physicly hurts me by hitting me and tripping me up. he as also called me fat
Yesterday he was doing this then i sed i wanted to sit down so he told me to sit on a log and sed "or are you too bit to sit on it" i then replied are you callin me fat now and walked off.he ran after me but never denied calling me fat. this is not the first time he has called me sumthing like this. any help?
2007-08-24 10:13:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
best solution is just to dumb him hes a total jerk. u shouldnt let him push u around and get away with it. this is definetaly a bad relationship cause he doesnt like u 1 but by the info u gave me.
2007-08-24 10:18:51 · answer #1 · answered by msworddragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do Not and I repeat Do Not wait to find out why he is doing this. If you are smart you will leave before it gets worse. No guy should treat you this way. If you don't have enough self respect to let him know in no uncertain terms that you won't put up with his aggression it is an invitation for him to abuse you
2007-08-24 10:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by teacher 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kate This IS Your Best Mate!! Dump Him I told You From The Start To Dump Him Hes no Good For you .. These People Oviusly agree
2007-08-24 10:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not trying to stir things or plant doubt in your head but did he cheat on you while he was away? some men act like this if they are feeling guilty, he might be trying to push you away for some reason, either way, if this is the case then let him have his wish and leave! this is only the begging and if you let him get away with it it will get worse,it will be hard because you love him, but you deserve someone who loves you back, you don't deserve this, no one does. also you should report him to the police, if he his charged it will go on his record, this can be your closure but also a way to subtly worn other women so if they are smart they will stay away from a violent brute like him!!!!!
2007-08-24 11:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM. You definatley do not need to be with someone like that. There are plenty of guys out there that would NEVER do anything to hurt you..physically or emotionally. If you keep letting him get away with it..he wont stop. It will just hurt you more in the end.
2007-08-24 10:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by NicNak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will only get worse. Tell him he can love you as you are or walk. Next time he lays a finger on you, put a baseball bat right between his legs.
You need to get as far away from this control freak as possible, while you can. This does not sound like love and respect.
2007-08-24 10:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by lilmissdisorganised 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 11:15:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me it's a relationship you need to get out of. Whether or not you are on the large size, and whether or not it concerns him enough to comment on it, there are ways and means of saying things and it sounds like tact is not one of his talents. But more important, you mention physical abuse. There is no excuse for that. Get out now - it will only get worse.
2007-08-24 10:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that you need tog et out of this relationship if you are not feeling it and you said he hits you. A man should NEVER hit a women.. period.. this is just the signs of a start of an abusive relationship.
2007-08-24 10:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by muzicchiq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has never treated you this way before then you need to talk to him and tell him how this is making you feel if there is no change leave him because you can do so better .
2007-08-24 10:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by Constance M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋