How do I say NO to a guy who won't take it as an answer???

Question

Well, there's this guy and he's madly in love with me, but I don't feel the same way AND he knows I havea boyfriend. I keep telling him over and over I Don't Love Him! How do I get rid of him? I mean, he's almost like a stalker!! He txt me and says "I'm looking at pictures of you.......you're so beautiful"
I want to die! Please help me!

-_-....I think giving up my virginity to a freak isn't such a great option!

btw, I'm on verizon and i can't block numbers.. it sux, i know.
LOL sum of ur answers are funny...but out of the lines.

I NEVER GAVE HIM PICS!!! He's either looking at the yearbook, OR on the lat day of school, i was surrounded by his friend and they were all trying to take pictures of me to give to him!! I would never give him my pic AND I gave him my number last year, when i thought he was my friend!

i can't believe i have to keep adding details...but my bf did tell him off, but it didn't work! it was as if it never happened to him! He makes me so agrivated -_-

Answer 1

you said "madly in love with you" i dont think thats what he feels. i think it does sound like a stalker and it sounds like its lust. he got this way someway..you gave him your number and pictures so now you are complaining why you did this. you got yourself into it now you have to get yourself out of it. if you are saying NO to him and he doesnt respect that then he DOESNT respect you. tell him what he is doing is bothering you. tell your BF to tell him off and to leave you alone maybe it takes another guy to wake him up. so what do you do when he text you? dont text him back! ignore him! you should call your phone provider and ask them if they can block a number from calling you. tell your dad or a guy friend about it maybe they can scare him away or something. if you ignore him he should eventually get the picture and dissapear but as long as you entertain it, he will stick around. good luck.

Answer 2

A: There is more to this story than you are sharing (why else would your bf be ignoring this guys behavior unless you don't want him to know) or B: You need to speak to someone with some kind of authority or position to make sure this guy leaves you alone now. Either way, wish you luck with your problem.

ADDED: C: if you don't feel like he is a danger to you , only an aggravaition, learn to ignore him until he gets bored or fix him up with one of your friends so he can have his own gf.

Answer 3

Tell him you feel very uncomfortable with his like, showing of affection towards you. You don't think it's right of him. Tell him you know that he likes you, but you don't feel the same way, and it makes you feel awkward when he says those things to you. Like, it's ohkay to compliment you once in a while, but too much is too much. He can look at your pictures and think you're beautiful, you just don't want him yelling you.

Answer 4

Have you tried ignoring him? I wouldn't say he's a stalker yet, but obsessed yes. This could get dangerous. Don't talk to him or aknowledge him in any way and see if he goes away. I don't know what to do after that.

Answer 5

OMG! i had this with one of my best friends i felt so bad rejecting him just keep up telling him it is never going to happen he will back down eventually it tkes a whie but i dont no how else to do it

Answer 6

Block his number and change yours. Tell him that if he contacts you ever again, you will call the cops on him.

Answer 7

THE BEST WAY TO SAY NO IS PERHAPS TO DO IT BY COURT ORDER. I.E RESTRAINING ORDER. other wise you can also get an attack dog from michael vick and set it on him

Answer 8

i know exactly what you mean... something kinda like that happened to me... just say that youre really not interested and hes starting to freak you out and he'll quit it

Answer 9

you need to change your number and if he keeps this up, get a restraining order on him for harassment...

Answer 10

thats when you tell him to meet you somewhere, then you show up wit ur man and ur man tell you to leave you alone. done deal