Wanted to know why he called me after 5 months of silence and I've have had a few responses... some of which said booty call, took advantage of your weak spot etc. Now I went to school with this guy some years back and we only recently made contact again (last year december). I haven't seen him since we made contact, we just have each others numbers and photos but I haven't been physical with him. As a matter of fact we've never been physical so to those who said it may be a booty call or he's taking advantage of my weak spot. This just ain't true. However like I said the fact remains that he has a girlfriend and I just need to know why he has called me again after 5 months. I deleted his number deliberately so I wouldn't call him. But he's contacted me again after 5 months. Why? Please guys help me out here. I need to know if this guy has genuine feelings for me or not. Guys, girls please advice.
2007-08-24 09:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by didi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is having trouble making up his mind. He's testing the waters to see if you are interested. Are you?
If you are, you ask him what's up? Tell him to call you after he's no longer with the girlfriend. If he stays with her, you know he isn't THAT interested and he's playing you to see if he can have his cake and eat it too.
2007-08-24 09:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I do not have the answer but something similar, he does the same thing to me this has been going on for 5 years. The longest we did not see or speak was a year, but no matter what he always calls eventually , I think it is a level of comfort with a person and trust thats all.
2007-08-24 09:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by REDFOUR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, then he is not calling you because he has feelings for you. If he did, then he would have waited to talk to you before hooking up with someone else.
Guys do weird things sometimes; maybe he just wanted some advice, or he feels a certain amount of "comfort" around you. Possibly you are also a boost to his self-esteem even if he is not interested in dating you....
2007-08-24 09:14:51 · answer #3 · answered by BK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys are wierd but if hes nice he just wants to be in contact with you if hes a dick he just wants somthng from you you cant get weak for him again because thats probally what he wants id ignore him unless he starts bugging you again
2007-08-24 09:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by King KC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like something is wrong in his relationship with his girlfriend and he's too chicken to break up with her. He's trying to test the waters with you to see if he should leave her for you. I don't trust it. He sounds like a guy who can't be alone. If you decide that you want him back, he's going to break up with her and go right to you.
2007-08-24 09:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by hotchange71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget him he is a loser and he just wants a booty call . be smart and dont let ppl take advantage of you .
2007-08-24 09:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just miss your company and friendship.
2007-08-24 09:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by spaced out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is stupid.
2007-08-24 09:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋