Im not perferted but im 16 and still a virgin but in my head i keep getting sexual desires and wanting to have sex.
2007-08-24 07:30:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean really really bad and i have problems with masturbating near 4 times a day.
2007-08-24 07:35:27 · update #1
and also, whats also causing this is my friend got laid and im jealous, where should i start when i do have sex??
2007-08-24 07:37:51 · update #2
I know you really want to, but hold off, really. Don't bang the first skank that tries to mount you. Do what you gotta do (you know) but don't be the typical guy-girls like that.
2007-08-24 07:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ryan,
This is so normal. You are feeling exactly what mother nature intended. If we creatures didn't get the desire to procreate (have sex) then there would be very few of us on the earth. Your desire(s) have been developed over millions of years of evolution. You desire sex and it feels good because that's how we all got here. Those of our race who had these wonderful feelings kept doing it and the whole thing kept getting better and better.
Just don't do something that could get you tied to the wrong relationship.
Be careful in how you respond to those desires.
ENJOY WHAT NATURE HAS GIVEN YOU!
2007-08-24 07:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Michael A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry those things will pass. God created for us to have those desires, they are natural. The problem is when you take action to those thoughts, sex, self stimulation, things of that sort.
The more you let your mind dwell on such things, the harder it will be to draw back from it.
If you do slip up, having sex has its consequences, check with an older sibling or have that talk with dad. BE SAFE!
2007-08-24 07:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by livinlife2thefullestn07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for people your age to feel that way, your hormones go crazy around the puberty teen years. I suggest though, that you should make sure you're ready before you decide to have sex, it's not something that should be taken lightly, and if you are ready, just be sure to protect yourself.
2007-08-24 07:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by KJGabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea it's all part of puberty. It's very normal. And there are some ways to deal with it without actually having sex.
2007-08-24 07:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emmanuel B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal..... really. Your hormones are just kicking in... try writing them down it helps and is fun to read hnow and later.. thats what i did when faced with this... Short stories;;; just hide em so your parents dont freak out orsoemthing!! and have fun..
2007-08-24 07:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by elisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very normal....not really sure what your asking here...as to the specific question but just know that that is normal and if and when you choose to act on them is totally up to u...don't let peers or oyur own desires push you into somthing your not ready to do....good luck
2007-08-24 07:36:48 · answer #7 · answered by rudey77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's everyone at 16, virgin or not.....(and 15 & 17 too)
2007-08-24 07:35:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is nothing wrong with that. its the age and there is nothing wrong with having sexual desires. Its all part of growing up.
2007-08-24 07:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by LadyD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you need a girlfriend that wants sex.
2007-08-24 07:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by Marge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋