For many years now i have been 'working' for this guy as a male prostitute and came drugs and other stuff,but i am almost 24 now.People have to die sooner or later,but i want to get clean now and get out of this mess.I have always fallen in love with this guy,he is a fellow prostitute,we have grown very close to each other,but i am worried sick now because the man we work for has given him a 'job' to do and i fear my friend will get hurt,there is some stuff i cant put into writing ever.But i feel really ill all the time because of all the different drugs i have been foced to take,there is so much more to this story but i just want to get out of it,and with my friend aswell,but i also have other friends under the mans control and i worry for their safety,i was paranoid i thought i was being watching,i dont think i am,but if anyone found out i was writing this,telling a few things i am a dead man,not to mention the friend i have fallen for.I just cant take it anymore,but i am scared too.
2007-08-24 05:58:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
which copy of the question is best to answer, this one or the other one?
2007-08-24 06:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Shiv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello. what a sad story honey,firstly please dont do anything silly.. secondly if you can ,sit down and try to think if there is a none disaproving relative ,maybe in another part of the country that would be able to put you and your friend up for a while until you can get "clean" and back on track, if not ,if you get free time perhaps a visit to the c.a.b. would help, they are a mine of information about everything and anything . you definately need to get out of this situation for your health and sanity,you are still very young so there is time to make a new start now, if your friend can`t/won`t come with you then, you have to make the break.but do it sooner rather than later,for your own sake, if not it could be too late.Another person that possibly could help you is the local vicar ,they do have dealings with all sorts of problems so he/she may be worth trying. i wish you all the luck in the world ,but only you can get you out of this mess so do it ,you have made a start here by sending this message in ,so just go a bit further and get out of there ok?
2007-08-24 06:26:10 · answer #2 · answered by her with the mad ginger hair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll need a secure place to go, and medical help, and money. It's difficult to give advice beyond this, but if there are two of you there's a reasonable chance you can prevent the boss from taking any action against you. If there's a large organization involved, that's the sort of thing that would interest the police, so you might begin there. Bear in mind, however, that the authorities won't have any reason to trust you if you've been engaged in unlawful activities, which presumably you have.
And so you may simply have to disappear. Move away, far away. Large cities are easier places to be anonymous than small towns, and there are more escape routes and warning systems than in rural areas.
Good luck.
2007-08-24 06:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by 2n2222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want out, you and your friend need to leave, get right away from the whole thing. Find a homeless hostel as far way as you can and start re-building your lifes.
As you have put and well know people die from this lifestyle so staying around and worrying about others is not going to help you, maybe when you have sorted yourself out then you can try to help the rest but for now you need to concentrate on yourself and the guy you have fallen for, but fore-mostly yourself. Once your settled in a place you need to register and discuss with a doctor a reasonable methadone plan to help you.
Good luck and I hope you go through with it, and it can be done believe me, I know people who've gone through similar situations.
xx
2007-08-24 06:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police station or even just phone them they should come and help you there are women that get into this situation all the time and the police have to get them out and they give them a new house and a new start you need to get your lover in on it as well. You won't be a dead man not once the police are their to hide and protect you best of luck.
2007-08-24 06:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pack my bags and get out of there. You cannot
do much about your friends. Destiny is in your own hands.
I am not saying it is easy for you, but if I was that scared -
a train and a few miles away from everyone, everything and a new future sounds very appealing. Good Luck to you and your
friend.
2007-08-28 05:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry for your situation,you clearly need help.first i really think that alough you love this guy you should really leave him behind so that you can move on.the police will be able to help you,maybe get you in to the witness protection program.also i think you really need to go into some sort of rehab programe,i do realise that in many areas there is a long waiting list for this,but im sure a good gp will be able to refer you.you cant do much for your friend as he is the only one who can help himself.but well done for making the first steps into cahnging your life all the best
2007-08-28 00:34:01 · answer #7 · answered by jo2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-13 08:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations on wanting out....as we sew, so do we reap. And you are reaping the whirlwind. I think I would go to the police, specifically the vice squad. For immunity tell them you will help put your pimp behind bars. They can protect you and once your pimp is behind bars you can get out of town and start fresh elsewhere.
2007-08-24 06:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sorry to say it but nobody has forced you into the life you are living, and therefore only YOU can change it. If your drug habbits are addictions, go to rehab. Get a normal job, or go back to school.
2007-08-24 06:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run.......both of you........go as far away from there as you can!
Dont let anyone hear your plan...........just disappear................
Your got nothing to lose, you can only win. Go far away and build a new life before its too late. Yours still young although you probably feel x2 your age.
I understand your very scared, dont worry about what you will do when your far away, its got to be better!
2007-08-24 06:19:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋