Do you think there is someone out there for everybody?

Question

Thats what everyone says but I can't help thinking maybe some people are meant to be on thier own. I'm single most of the time and I think I might be one of those people or just simply not good enough?

No I'm not under 20....I'm 29 ie. running out of time!

Answer 1

OMG! Thats exactly what Ive been thinking. Good question, have a star!
Im under the impression that Im never going to find someone for me, unless I settle for someone who likes me more than I like them and Im not doing that!!!
All my friends reckon Im going to find someone but after 4 years of being miserably single, I dont see a light at the end of the tunnel.
Every date that I go on (last one being saturday just gone) I still seem to come home depressed and alone because the guy is a complete wankstain!!!
I think Im an OK person, I need to work on some things but Im beginning to think Im destined to be alone.

Lets hope we find someone who can restore our faith in love
Good Luck to ya!

Answer 2

I honestly don't. I believe some people are meant to b e single, but that doesn't mean there is any thing wrong with them. I also think for those meant to be in relationships it can take time to find our special someone and it takes work. You can't stay on the sidelines and think they'll come to you on a white horse. Maybe your constantly attracted to one type of guy the type of guy that will not settle down and turn into something long term. You've got to live your life and if you live your life whining about being single you probably come across as miserable and no one wants to be with someone misrable. Oh and 29 is hardly old and running out of time. Stay positive.

Answer 3

Yeah, I do agree with u. Everyone seems to have this mentalitiy that there's someone out there for everyone, but scores of people are unhappy in their relationships. I know u always want what u don't have, and once u get it, u want something else. But pairing people up is not easy. I think u are good enough. U just have to believe u are. Good people are rare these days, and then if u meet a bad person, they have to want to change for the better. U'll meet someone when u least expect it if ur meant to. There might not be someone out there for everyone...but those people are either ok with it, or struggling to be.

Answer 4

I'm sure its not the fact that you are not good enough. Some people lprefer to be on their own and that is way I think they end up that way. But I do believe that if you want there is someone for everyone, they just might taske longer to met than others.
hang in there, I'm sure you will find someone when you least expect it.

Answer 5

Wow 6.6 billion people in the world he said. You must be crazy to think that the "one" for you is not amoung them, then on the other hand, 6.6 billion people in the world, that is a lot of people to go through to find the "one". Yet somehow in all of the BS people find and loss each other everyday. thousands if not millions of them every week and thousands if not millions of people find "love" and stay together every week also. kind of makes you wonder if we are not any different then anyone else when it comes to finding someone. We really have no idea what that other person had to go through to find what they found, maybe nothing maybe everything. i'm no budda, but i do know that we all seem to want to know the answers and we all think we do. you are not going to find your answer on the net. We don't know any more then you do. this may sound all "Karate kid " like but the answer is in you girl. Is there a "one"? who knows? The thing you should be asking is do you really need the "one"? maybe the "two" is just as good and you are his "one". Maybe you are his "three", but together you make five. stop listening to other people and start listeniing to yourself. "one" "two" "three" there just numbers. find him, like him, love him, choose him. it dosn't matter if he is "120". It is a choice, nothing more. If you choose him, then he is the "one". choose wisely.

Answer 6

I am from Romania and we say that every sack has it's patch. So basically no matter how bad you look, there will be someone for you. I think it's true, there is someone for everyone. Some people will meet they're true love, some will meet they're true love and not see it right in front of them and some will never meet they're true love, but the bottom line is you will have someone even though they might not be perfect. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

I am absolutely sure that this is the case. The problem is, of course, that the one you´re meant to be with could be living in Hongkong or New Zealand. Well, you can either go out looking for him or hope that he´ll find you. Either way, remember: patience is a virtue.

Answer 8

I feel the same way. I've been single for what I think has been way too long... Sometimes I also think there may be nobody to appreciate me. But like you said, people say things like to have patience... Supposedly someone will come along...

Answer 9

dont ever think that !!! you have to look at in another way ...when we do meet someone ask your self "are they good enought for me "
yes i hope so ...like you im single and like me you are probably getting a pee'd off with being on your own ...
but there is someone ...just not our time yet to find them
they will come along at some point we just have to be patient
just enjoy being you and have fun !!!
good luck to both of us x

Answer 10

I think this is true for the most part. Don,t underrate yourself just because you are single, i am but only because im on a break after three long term relationships.