i loved this girl, but i broke up with her a few months ago. i think she has feelings for me still, but just not as much.idk wut she thinks of me any more. i'm afraid of making a fool of myself by asking her out again and her saying no. i kinda have a good repetion so i don't want to ruin it.how can i find out that she loves me without asking her straight on?
2007-08-24 03:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by singer_of_the_sa!nts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a couple of choices. One is to not bother to find out the answer and probably regretting it later on; the other is to put your heart and soul on the line and ask her out. You may have only one thing to lose--and that is NOTHING!!! Love is the most important thing there is in this world and if you have feelings for her, don't you let her get away. If you did, that would ruin your reputation, because if anyone found out they would see you were a fool.
2007-08-24 03:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are worried more about your reputation than if this girl really likes you. Why did you brake up with her in the first place if you say you still love her? Does the reason still exist? It is normal to still have feelings for someone even though you are not meant to be. Personally, I would either ask her, or just move on and let your heart heal. Best wishes!
2007-08-24 10:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in being honest to yourself and to others. Tell her straight that you still want to go out with her and she doesnt want then fine, you will respect her decission and turn on the page. Remember you are not doing this for anyone else but you. You are not making fool of yourself by dclaring love to a woman. That's is the most beautiful thing, if she is not interested then shame on her!!!!
2007-08-24 10:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nomimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You already made a fool out of yourself by breaking up with her when you should have stayed with her. Man up and deal with it. She doesn't deserve the yo-yo feelings that you'll be putting on her. You'll find someone else.
And so you know, your reputation is worthless once you get out of high school.
2007-08-24 10:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by You're all dumb. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on dude! Of course she loves you! You broke up with her... If you love her go for it! and ask her out straight! Say sorry for everything uve done.. But dont make it only cos u feel guilty or something... Only if u love her!! Good luck :)
2007-08-24 10:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're more concerned with your reputation than with romancing your girl, you certainly don't like her enough to pursue her. Leave her alone to finish getting over you, and make a bit of an attempt to get over yourself as well.
2007-08-24 10:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to put your heart on the line and ask her. You will never know what she thinks or feels if you don't
2007-08-24 10:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by chris d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking from her friends if both of you has a common friend. If not, just ask her out before its too late. Good luck! =)
2007-08-24 10:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex for a reason mate. 2nd time chances hardly ever work out and it can just feel like you're missing something. Move on and find someone who better suits you.
2007-08-24 10:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by gliderfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, if your not willing to rish your "reputation" for the girl then you dont need to ask her at all. Just ask her straight up and dont worry about it.
2007-08-24 10:08:11 · answer #10 · answered by Desert Punk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋