my bf's suddenly developed a child like appertite for life...you see his ex never wanted to do anything but go to bingo and now hes with me and im 7 years younger and full of energy he suddenly wants to go to places like knowsley safari park, sealife centre and cadburys world. i think this is really cute but some of my mates are abit worried. should i be?
2007-08-24 01:45:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S his ex was 39..hes 31 and im 24 ;-)
2007-08-24 01:45:37 · update #1
I don't understand why you would be worried? what exactly is their reasoning behind that?
It sounds to me like he actually enjoys your company, therefore doing those things is actually fun. Going to a place likes Knowsley safari park with his ex might have been more of a chore then fun, since all she liked was bingo, now maybe with you its actually a enjoyable experience.
I wouldn't worry at all, I would enjoy it, I'm sure for him it feels good to be with someone outgoing and it sounds like to me he is outgoing but was trapped in a not-out-going relationship. the sense of freedom is probably wonderful.
2007-08-24 01:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by crysent 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Shouldn't be worried at all. Just be ready for the times that he doesn't feel like doing anything. Those times will come but try to understand. My g/f is 12 years younger than me and it's very similar. She understands though when I just feel like bumming around the house.
Best of luck and the important thing is BE HAPPY. Regardless of what your mates say.
2007-08-24 01:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it may be more of a case thatyour friends are jealous hun!!! This turnaround sounds great and you should be enjoying all the new days out etc instead of worrying about them
Hes probably just realised that there IS more to life than bingo and that theres so much to be done in life!!
Appreciate it and go with the flow hun!
xx
2007-08-24 01:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I was a girl I would never trust my girl friends sincerity. Women can always be jealous and have hidden motives. Personally I would say if you are enjoying his new found life run with it and enjoy it. With men they are quite simple creatures there is probably nothing sinister like your g/f's suggest. More women should be like you and let your men get excited soooo many women try to put men in a shell to mother & sister them to have control.
2007-08-24 02:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by A . Z . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you posted elsewhere that you and chummy are playing the horizontal two-backed monkety dance twice in the morning and three times at night - every morning and every night? Now you're fannying about at safari parks and the like? When do you get the bloody time?
2007-08-24 02:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by ANGUS 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I wouldn't be worried, i think he is at last enjoying himself with you. Why not visit all the fun places, live life to the full.
2007-08-24 02:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriends 28 and im 19... so i kinda get what your saying..i don't feel theres anything to be worried about, he's obviously takening advantage of the fact that he can do these kind of things now...i think it's cute. but when he wants to go to disney you better draw the line.
2007-08-24 11:16:46 · answer #7 · answered by Mischa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are having fun and enjoying yourselves. Don't worry about the "mates"- they sound jealous!
2007-08-24 02:06:45 · answer #8 · answered by xenonvalkyrie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats lovely!
Live everyday as though its your last!! Enjoy his new found zest for life :) xxxx
2007-08-24 02:43:00 · answer #9 · answered by n i k k i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mates to worry about their own issues. Sounds harmless.
2007-08-24 01:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋