I accidently posted this question in the gay section so i'm going to repost it. If more than 50% of people are having premaritial sex(I'm sure its higher than that), and even some people in my church group are having prematiital sex can I do it to? Will I go to hell even though I can resisit the temptation? Even if I ask god later to forgive me but i could easily have not sinned? If Hitler can murder all those people and ask for forgiveness, can I have some fun with my girls in my bed? I may never get married and then i would really regret it. Speaking of affairs and sex, look at how many great men of the bible that have been brought down because of sex. lol. If Abraham can have and affair can't I sleep with some women?
2007-08-23 22:37:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I suggest you wait and grow up a little, especially in your attitude toward women. We're not your sexual playthings, pal. We're human beings with thoughts, emotions, ideas, needs, desires of our owns.
Keep your pants zipped until you understand that women deserve respect.
2007-08-24 03:34:26 · answer #1 · answered by sparki777 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Consensual sex is nothing to be ashamed of. I can't see how this somehow perverts the actual act of sex or violates your holy temple, if thats true wouldn't masturbation be sinful? Of course anything in too much excess is bad so don't have sex with the whole bar. Go out and have some fun, women these days expect a man to have some decent experience anyways.
2007-08-23 23:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by infinite2678 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your salvation has nothing to do with what sins you have or have not committed. IT has entirely to do with your relationship with God through faith in Jesus Christ. As you mentioned, Hitler could have killed as he did and still theoritically have been saved, although not likely, yet there is much more to the issue than that. First of all there are consequences for sins. David committed adultery but thousands of people died because of God's judgment on that sin. You become sexually involved and you will suffer for it, and she will suffer for it, and so will her family and yours and many other people including your children. Your marriage later in life will always have a lack of trust in it because of your unfaithfulness and your chances of a good marriage will be lowered. Your ability to ever develop a close relationship with God will be severly diminished and therefore your ministry potential and eternal rewards will be also. God's principle "whatsoever a man sows that will he also reap" still is a living principle. You cannot play games with God!
2007-08-23 23:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by oldguy63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think that automatically qualifies you to go hell however, you must know the high risks of this type of activity. Would you like it if you got a girl pregnant with that type of attitude?
Sex is sacred for it is the ultimate form of expressing your love and should only be reserved for the person you will truly love most.
P.S.
I doubt the people in your Church are setting a good example
2007-08-23 22:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Otaku in Need 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i believe there is nothing wrong with sex in a long term relation, that may end up with marriage. affairs however are no good, even if you are not religious. sex should be something you do when you love the person, otherwise it will make you feel empty
2007-08-23 22:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by larissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have the love for God. He is still alien to you. You are of the world and of course you can do as you wish and will find it difficult to believe it is a sin to God.
Say you are a Christian and you are asking this question then this is your fruit as a Christian. Is it good for consumption? Will it satisfy the hunger or thirst of the world in spirituality ?
Check yourself, please!
2007-08-23 22:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kingdomchild07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, you will not.
How do you know Hitler asked for forgiveness? Did you ask him? Surely you are not that old.
Why would you want to sleep around, though? STD's.......Are you that inconsiderate of both women and yourself?
When you sleep with someone, you are also sleeping with all of the people they have slept with. YUK...
2007-08-23 22:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ofcourse u can have sex. in my thinking life is nothing without sex it satisfies a man for rest of his life.if you have sex than only your complete otherwise u r incomplete go for it it is natural to have such feelings about it .if god doesnt like it why god created it just think about it go ahead you should enjoy ur life.
2007-08-23 22:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by S S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know for sure of course . no one does. but i would be willing to bet my house it makes not a jot of difference if we live again we all live again . abiet in certain and changing conditions .there is much to be said for karma however . i am sure you will find yourself responsible for any hurt you have caused through your actions .
2007-08-23 22:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by matt culling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-08-23 22:44:00 · answer #10 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋