I've seen a lot of trolls post really funny things...I'm all in favor that. But some of the things that get posted around here are NOT funny, they are deeply hurtful.
Like someone earlier saying that people who can't procreate shouldn't be allowed to marry. As a woman unable to have children due to being abused as a small child, that really hurts.
Please be more careful about the 'jokes' you post.
Why do people post rubbish like that and find it funny?
2007-08-23 19:50:45 · 17 answers · asked by . 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
In the their post they included women who can not bear children.
2007-08-23 20:11:20 · update #1
Yeow Teng K- yes it is ridiculous
2007-08-23 21:59:25 · update #2
Trolling in general is hurtful. Why would you support it at all if you know it can hurt people? Are not one's personal beliefs just as important as a woman who cant have children?
EDIT: just noticed you were the woman who is unable to have children. I am sorry you were hurt by the trolls; I still belive trolling for any reason is useless and hurtful for this very point.
2007-08-23 20:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Loosid 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I didn't find the post funny either. It was just a sobering statement of reality. Being a gay male I am not allowed to marry. One justification for this is that gay couples cannot procreate. If we cannot, why should a str8 couple that cannot produce children be allowed to marry...isn't that discrimination?!?
Yes, rubbish like that is a 'jagged little pill' to swallow. Unfortunately, with the rising controversy over it, you will probably be hearing more of it.
2007-08-24 03:02:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lion Jester 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that I do not agree AT ALL to whoever said that you can't marry if you can't have kids!! Is that all marriage is, just a way to populate the world? No! (If I could give you a hug right now, I would. :) Just brush it off.)
I agree - please think about the wide range of people who will be reading these before you say anything potentially hurtful!
People sometimes post "rubbish" - as you call it - meaning to be funny because we're all sinners and deep down take pleasure in doing what is wrong. After the Fall, it became part of our nature. But by the grace of God and salvation through His Son, Jesus Christ, we can be dead to those desires and live the way He wants us to: in His mercy and love!
God bless you!
2007-08-24 03:01:19 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. I know that I didn't post that garbage, but I have seen things hurtful to me personally as well. Just the other night someone implied that babies go to hell, and being a mother who lost a 1 year old three years ago, that hurt.
I'm also sorry you were mistreated, and no I will not say there was a reason for it in God's plan. I don't know what your beliefs are, but I DO know that God had nothing to do with what happened to you as a child. He loves you.
2007-08-24 02:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by The Apple Chick 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
People put rubbish things and find it funny....
because....different minds have different ideas of fun.
to hide their dumbness about the subject and be indifferent to questions that are beyond the reach of their mind.
because some people doest have breeding and respect is not in their vocabulary.
because wild animals love to hurt others.
2007-08-24 03:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by alahalul 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey Tash,
Sorry about your barron state. i have some close friends who are barron and i know through a lot of prayer they were able to have kids.
i'm sorry about your hurts.
As i've been on this site for awhile i've noticed that some people do come on here to make fun of other people or just to hurt people. Just keep that in mind and don't take it so personally... i'm really sorry about your hurts and i will pray for you.
Kindly,
Nickster
2007-08-24 03:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nickster 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear you were abused and yes there are some who post nasty things with out thought. Love is am essential to life and although baby's may be a blessing to some they are not essential in being human.
2007-08-24 02:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mim 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I agree.
There seems to be a lot of hurtful people on here , but then that is indicative of the sort of world we live in now days.
2007-08-24 03:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by I♥U 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I deeply understand you but somehow... you can't tell them to stop....
This is for public.. so expect the unexpected jokes, comments, etc...
Just ignore them and continue giving decent answers to those who asked decent questions....
we all have our rights to express ourselves...
Now, if they do give disgusting issues, then, they're the one who destroy their own self not you, not me, not anyone but them...
Blessed be!
Morrigan )0(
2007-08-24 03:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by morrigan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes all kinds. You just have to remember that and live with it. You don't have to like it, but you have to live with it. Otherwise you will end up hurting yourself more than others hurt you. Alfred.
2007-08-24 02:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Grendel's Father 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋