Well i told my ex who i went out for a week that i hadn't had a boyfriend and that i was a virgin. He tells me that he wants a serious relationship i tried to get him to understand that i never been a relationship so why would he expect me to be like that. Do guys care that there gf had never had a bf? P.S. im 18 What should i do/
2007-08-23 17:22:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is sweet if a girl has never had a real boyfriend before. Just watch out you told him you are a virgin and there are guys that will date a girl and all just to be their first if you know what I mean. Yeah it is sweet. I just don't want you to get hurt. So make sure you do not have sex with him for a while, meaning until you are ready and you know for sure he loves you. You need to know and see that he cares about you and really loves you and is not just trying to be your first. I know that sounds mean but I know guys who have done that before. If you like him and he likes you go out with him, that is OK. It will give you a chance to see what kind of guy he really is. Just make sure he treats you good and is nice to you and takes your thoughts and ideas into consideration. I think you sound adorable. Good luck :)
2007-08-23 17:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some guys like those 'virgin' never had a bf girls because are the one who would teach the girls on how to be in a relationship unlike those who had experience who have a notion about being in a relationship. well there is some guy there for u, wait ure too young
2007-08-23 17:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by ves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do like it when a girl has been in a relationship before, but to be a virgin is good. My advice is to stay that way until you find the one you love and marry.
2007-08-23 17:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by rckrjr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only guys that are in the relationship purely for sex will care that much about you being a virgin. Sex is NOT a solid foundation for a relationship. If he wants a serious relationship, it shouldn't be factor, it should be a relief, you can get to know each other without all the sexual stress.
2007-08-23 17:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by Nikke 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes a lot. in fact where i live no girl has sex befor e marriage so here all girls have never a bf and almost all boys have no gf befor emarriage. i would nver like a girl with an ex boyfrienfd . and i would also not like to be with her as bf but as a husband forever
2007-08-23 17:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys love the idea of a virgin. A new, fresh girl who does not have a ton of baggage.
2007-08-23 17:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particular, adult males are very intimidated via shy ladies. i myself am very shy(I easily have social rigidity sickness) and characteristic been informed i'm intimidating. i think of it incredibly is the air of puzzle that we with-carry. it could look like adult males like the loud, outgoing ladies, even though it incredibly is purely 'reason they are "uncomplicated" and sturdy for "one evening stands". under no circumstances substitute your self for adult males, however do attempt to be extra outgoing. and don't subject::: i'm particular you will get a boyfriend quickly :) Edit: i've got additionally under no circumstances had a boyfriend, however i'm slightly youthful than you. Being Muslim has no longer something to do with, i'm particular. What you're able to be able to desire to do is be extra confident, incredibly. there is that this one woman in my college, she would not have a appropriate physique, she's no longer drop lifeless magnificent, yet she has a factor approximately her that purely oozes self assurance. everyone needs to be her pal, and she or he has adult males coming at her left and suitable. looks have little to no result on something.
2016-11-13 07:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. just let things ride and if you start getting deep into the relationship and dont want to be then sit him down and talk about going slower. go w/ the flow for a while tho first. if he gets mad then he isnt worht your time anyways.
2007-08-23 17:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely yep, I think gurls like that are very innocent which is what i prefer in a girl, but they have to be cute too.
plus i think your ex is a big douche
2007-08-23 17:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your virginity intact until you're married!!!!!! You will thank yourself for the rest of your life, and so will your husband!
2007-08-23 17:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋