no one likes my girlfriend?

Question

but me i want to move out with her and start a life but my parents and friends thinks it a bad idea can any one help

some of my friends say she starts drama but i havent seen any drama i just dont know if she is keeping me from it or what it is but she doesnt really like my friends eather and that could be the reason my friends dont like her but i dont really know thats why im asking u guys

Answer 1

there's must be a reason why they don't like her....

but if u are 100% sure of her and that is the best decision then move out with her

Answer 2

personalities are very complex... how could someone tell you what can and cannot make you happy... what is good for you may not be good enough for them... ask people what they don't like about her... and try to assess if it's really that big a deal... maybe your girl doesn't know about it and you would eventually do her a big favor if you help her change and of course be subtle about it.. when you help her with the problem be very supportive and make her feel like you will be there for her no matter what... i once had the same problem ... my boyfriends friends hate me because I would barely even look at them.. what they didn't kow was that i was just very shy... well of course back in high school a freshman at that.. I was... but knowing about it helped me.. and now his friends are crazy about me even after we broke up.. but be more specific on what her problem is before you ask for another advise

Answer 3

No, something is very wrong here. There is either another guy in the picture- I think that's most likely, or she's mentally ill- meaning she's had some kind of childhood trauma to make her weird about trusting men. She'll be detached, despondent, impulsive, childish, overly cute, proud, and edgy. This is a bad situation for you. Do not let her hurt you. Stand tall, and be uncompromising.

Answer 4

This sounds familiar, except I was in the girlfriend's shoes. I was in love with my boyfriend, but he was popular, I wasn't, his parents were rich, mine weren't, etc. His mom hated me. And I know that he loved me, but there was too much pressure, so he broke up with. That was a few years ago and he recently told me it was the worse mistake of his life. Of course I am married now, I moved on and he lost out. You don't want to be like that do you?

But keep in mind, there may be something everyone else can see that you are too close to notice. Why don't you ask them why it's a bad idea and unless they can give you a direct answer that makes sense, you shouldn't listen to them.

Answer 5

If everyone in your life that truly loves you does not like this person, try to figure out why. I'm not saying not to follow your heart, just sometimes when you're in love, you can't see what others can about a person. I DO NOT mean this to be disrespectful to you. If you feel it's right do it, just remember, everyone else in you're life must see something about this girl that you can't see right now because you care for her.
Then again I could be wrong! I wish you the best!!!!

Answer 6

well first off no one likes my girl either so i know where your coming from. second you got to take many things into consideration.Like are you guys financialy secure. that means you dont need any help with money you pay for your own expenses etc. If mom still buys you clothes your not ready. also are you trying to start a future with her or are you just tired of living at home. if your just trying to get out the gouse cuz the parents are always on your ***, you'd be better off trying to find one of your buds to share an apartment with.and you have to make sure that she wants to be with you also and not just trying to leave home.one more thing, if you do decide to get an apartment together dont let her make you sign the lease and you sign nothing,take it from me you get an apartment and she didnt sign it makes it that easier for her to leave you when things get tough. and they will get tough.

p.s since it will be you two and you'll have a lot of alone time, stock up on those rubbers man because altough a blessing baby may be exta bills is something you dont need

Answer 7

I'm not sure of you situation. Just sit down and have an honest conversation with you friends/family and ask them why they don't like her. You may love her but at the end of the day, if everyone else in you life thinks she wrong for you they might be right. You could just have your love goggles on, so when she is doing something that you should be concerned about you over look it because of the goggles. Plus it makes it uncomfortable for you family/friends to be around you because of her. I know, they should support you decisions but on the flip side you should also support theirs.

Answer 8

Find out what the reasons are that they do not like her. Is she controlling or rude to them? Has she ever said things to them that were not very nice or has she tried to keep you all to herself and not give you time with your family and friends. There is a reason that this many people do not like her. You should ask them and make a judgment based on that. If it was just one or two people well OK not everyone gets along but if it is a group of people then there maybe something to it. Never rush into moving in with someone until you know then and you know that they will respect you and your family and friends. Best of luck.

Answer 9

Love is blind, my friend! What aren't you saying? Why doesn't anyone like her? Wish I knew how old you are. No matter, do NOT rush into that decision lightly. It's a very difficult and sometimes a legal matter when break-up times comes along. What's yours, what's hers, rent responsibilities, etc. Talk to an adult you trust and find out what's best to do.

Answer 10

Their must be good reasons why everyone doesn't like your gf? Is she rude or what? Or do they just not know her well? If it's one of these things, that will come with time. But if your truly happy, and feel she's the one for you, I say go for it! The others won't be in bed with you each night, so what do they care. Time should take care of this problem.

Answer 11

There are a couple of points I'd like to make. First don't just move in with her. Either marry her or don't live with her. As far as worrying whether your parents and friends like her. You can really judge a lot by whether or not they like her. Your friends know you best and your parents are the clearest picture of who you will be.