I love this man, for years i have. We finally tell eachother after years apart (5 yrs) and we are far apart. It was thrilling, but how do I know what he feels about long distance and should we even try? We opened a door that can't be opened I guess. What do I do? Let him ask what we should do?
2007-08-23 17:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by tickertock 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him and do whats u both want u dotn ened to ask strangers for advice if u know u love him go for it hell maybe ull get licuky and make it work nothing is imposible so instead of asking around here ask urself
is this really what i want?
if the answer is yes
well then go for it and dont listen to otehr peopel it only makes things bad fight for ur love cuz i lost mine and i wish every lover the best and ill take my brokjen heart and put it back together hoping the love of my life returns to me
2007-08-23 17:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know how you feel. My gf of 4 years now is 7 states away. We dated for a year, then she left to pursue college. We are still together. I recomend talking to him, seeing what you both want, and what the other needs, out of this relationship. What do you seek? Marriage? Family? If so, then pursue it. You can never be 100% sure that someone is honest in a LD relationship, but that is why love is based on trust. Trust him, and if he betrays you, I am sorry, but then you know it wasnt ment.
2007-08-24 00:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you gotta ask him how he feels about LDR's.
Talk to him about it, that's the only way you can find out.
LDR's can be successful, depending on the people involved. It takes a lot of work and can be very lonely... expensive too if you travel to see him a lot.
2007-08-24 00:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by goawaydamnyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the door has been opened so make the best of it --- its only long distance as long as you let it --- someone could move --- what is more important ---- your relationship or where you live??? --- best wishes
2007-08-24 00:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yu have to first be prepared for this. lost distance relationship is easy to start, but never easy to maintain. if you successfully got together with this man, you have to endure the insecurity, the loneliness, the worries that comes with it.
2007-08-24 00:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by neon_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel my Fiance and me are so far away i feel like we never get together, it seem like it hard for me i feel like i will never see him and my friends dint like it but i know he truly love me. he been there for me in time of need but it really hard to far away.
2007-08-24 01:08:30 · answer #6 · answered by Akasha D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so excited! this is not going to go anywhere believe me, from experience. turn off your motor and think about this. long distance anything is for fools!
2007-08-24 00:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by cool person 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i went through the same scenario. it didn't work out, but at least i gave it a shot and don't have to think 'what if'.
2007-08-24 00:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till tyou see what he says and wants to do and go from there
2007-08-24 00:14:17 · answer #9 · answered by Fran J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋