scenario: my ex and i loved each other deeply. we had been friends for a long time and it just progressed. then she just decided to end our relationship for some reason that i didnt desrve to know. she fed me the i-still-want-2-be-friends crap and i bought it. she said that she didnt want to have anything to do with me, dont call, dont talk, just stay away. love didnt mean ****! she still loves me! we just cant be together b/c circumstances MIGHT make things difficult. or so she tells me. i havent spoken to her in nearly 2.5 years. as she requested. havent dated anyone since. her face always fills my mind w/ doubt and i **** it up. i'm over her, bu not the way it ended. she, according to a mutual friend, isnt over it at all. hasnt had a bf since. seen her several times since but never spke to her. she apparently doesnt understand why i'm "being cold and distant to her" i would like 2 talk 2 her 2 either close the past or try again but idk how she would react if i called. wht wld u do?
2007-08-23 16:59:20 · 6 answers · asked by YouKnowMyName 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know this is difficult to actually do but I would call her and spill my guts out to her because listen if you don't you won't be in any better shape then you already are you know? At you least you'll have the satisfaction of knowing you told her how you feel.
Oh and a wise man (he's not really wise but I always wanted to say that on yahoo!) once told me
"A man once figured all the secrets to the womans mind and never told anyone because he died of laughter!"
2007-08-23 17:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call her. Go on with your life. If she really hasn't dated in 2.5 years then why hasn't she called you? Better yet, when the two of you saw each other where ever that was and she still couldn't speak to you--HELLO--give that one a rest. She's blowing you off and the friend is supposed to make you feel guilty because your ex-girlfriend hasn't had a date in 2.5 years--I never did that even when I was in my 20's or divorced--get real and come alive MR. Get on with life because there's a grand one in front of you!!!
2007-08-24 00:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mignon F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me at this point, whatever reason she created in her own mind to dump you faded and she is realizing she fu*ked up...now she is trying to feel you out...see if you are still in love with her...to make the move to come back, powerplay...she dumped you...she calls the shots...she brings you back, she has the control....you're clear you are over her....but I know better...if you were you'd be dating again and not be too concerned with if she dated or not...you still have feelings but not enough to sustain a relationship, your feelings stem from the lack of closure...it'd be a big mistake to try it again...it will fail again....cut your losses and seriously move on...forget why she left...the bottom line to it all is...she left!
2007-08-24 00:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by TPete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at it this way she told you she didn't want to be around you etc. so it doesn not matter what she is doing. she ended it and therefore i wouldn't sit around crying over your tea just pick yourself up and find someone now. its too late for her as you hae to go and talk again to her i wouldn't after what she told you its shes not in love with you and she realizes it.
2007-08-30 22:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would get a hold of her to either rekindle or put an ending to your past so you can feel free to move on. but you truly wont move on if there is no end to the both of you.
2007-08-24 00:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by Fran J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother. You are better off getting to the last level of "Guitar Hero".
2007-08-31 19:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Joey Michaels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋