What kind of things have you done to get back with an ex?

Question

If you wanted them back

Someone asked me this question...kinda baffled me. I just want to hear others thoughts.

Answer 1

can't love someone who doesn't love you back. Thats my rule of thumb. Never give them that satisfaction of feeling as though they have the advantage. Ignore them and you get better results.

Answer 2

How does he feel about you? Do you really believe that you stand a chance of getting back together with him?

If you do, you could compose a poem / write a letter, totally praising him as a person and saying how much you admire him (and at this point, you are doing it anonymously)....... then a few days later follow it up with another letter, still going on about how cool / cute/ delicious he is, etc, still not letting on about who you are...
and then the third and last letter, you could make referrals to the previous two letters and add more drivel about how much you dig him and then only at the end could you give some idea about who you are.... You could tell him straight it was you the whole time or just leave some clues.... and then just leave it be..... and wait and see if he contacts you.....

Maybe leave it for a week.......if you dont get a reply then either he is really slow and hasnt worked it out that it was you ........ or he just isnt interested in getting back with you... and you maybe havent embarressed yourself.... too badly!

Hope you get the result you want!

Answer 3

My husband and i were separated at the time i did this,it was a Saturday night and i knew he was coming to see me the next day so i staged the bed room to look like i had someone over. I started at the front door with my coat i made it look like i couldn't get my cloths off fast enough.Up the stairs was my shoes and top then in the hall way my pants leading into the bedroom was bra&panties i made a drink and poured half of it out to make it look like i had been drinking got into bed with nothing on made sure the bedroom door was unlocked so i wouldn't have to get up to open it.Well the next morning came and sure enough he couldn't get in the bedroom fast enough.He stormed in and i looked up all innocent and said gee your here early he said nothing and just started looking around he went into the bathroom i said what are you doing he said nothing.Inside i was laughing my butt off. We did get back together and that happened 10 years ago i told him about it after we got back together he was glad that that's all it was. I would never do something like that for real.

Answer 4

I played him my new song that I wrote and beg for forgiveness. Personally, I think the best way to get back with your ex is to go hide around his house and make traps, scare him after all that you have done, tickle him and made him laugh. Go to Six Flags, it works!

Answer 5

Honestly, nothing. If I wanted them back I might pine alone..but to sink to the level to beg or play revenge...no...It takes too much energy that I could be using on giving myself a better life.

Answer 6

Nothing. I have never wanted and ex back. They are ex's for a reason and all I do is accept that reason.

Answer 7

Nothing. It seems that life may be getting back at him, and it is really sad. I did not plan it. Of course at this time I do not want him back.

Answer 8

THE OLD STALKING TACTICS WORK FOR ME: KIDDING.
I HAVE SENT EMAILS,CALLED ON SPECIAL DAYS AND CAME OVER AND HELPED HIM OUT A COUPLE OF TIMES. FULL BODY MASSAGE WEARING FRENCH MAID OUTFIT. HOT. ANYWAY. DO WHAT YOU ARE COMFORTABLE DOING BUT ONLY IF ITS GOING TO GET THE ATTENTION YOU WANT FROM THE EX.

Answer 9

Never wanted them back. In the first place its usually the guys who cheated on you so nope, could never trust them enough to even want them back.

Answer 10

u hv 2 had mutual needs on this. if u get in relationship 4 a very GOOD reason, then its ok. mk sure he also wants to be wit u too. in my experience, we went to the beach n hd our holiday 2gther. i've done it b4 n its work..