2007-08-23 14:20:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on how much money he has and how many dates you've been on together. j/k probably not but i dont think many girls will turn it down if its offered.
2007-08-23 14:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It used to be the case years ago because few women had jobs. Since so many women work now, I think the custom is getting outdated. I think the person who asks for the date should be paying. Or you could take turns paying. A lot of guys are not very enthusiastic about having a woman pay for the date (a lot of guys believe they should be the "provider and protector) and they ill at ease with a woman paying. I think most couples should just work out a system they are comfortable with, and don't worry about how it is "supposed to be done".
2007-08-23 21:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Flying Dragon 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in an old fashion and in a wealthy house...I am now 24 and do not get a penny from my family because I need to make it, on my own. I have a great job, but not a lot of money at all. I still will not let a women pay for anything because it is manors. Just like I would never walk in front of a girl, I always open doors, always walk on the inside of the road (guys walk on the side, towards of traffic), but it is how I was raised....Most people don't even notice a lot of things that are old fashion. Think of it as a nice thing to do, and nothing more then that. I don't just do it for girls I am talking to, dating, or want to date. I do it for every girl, from friends to people I work with. Think of it as a gift......just like I think a wife should have a choice to work or not. I think she should work if she wants, but if she doesn't want to, she doesn't have to. It is "my responsibility" to take of my family, and make money. Let me say that stay at home moms have a much harder job then most if not all men....
2007-08-23 21:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by eshie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The initiator of the date pays.
2007-08-23 21:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. If a woman invites a man on a date, then she should pay for it and the man should at the least get the tip. The same if a man invites a woman out or if they decide to go dutch and split the bill.....
2007-08-23 21:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he asks you on the dates.. Yes. if you ask him as the girl, then the girl should. if you are boyfriend and girlfriend you should take turns paying and make it around 50/50.
2007-08-23 21:24:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First date yes, every date after that a 50/50 split. Unless she's a gold digger.
2007-08-23 21:23:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I think it depends on your relationship. My boyfriend pays for everything but then I occasionally treat him to stuff. It's interesting when I treat him to stuff he tries to pay for half.
2007-08-24 01:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Who is that red head??? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i do!!!! but maybe thats the way i was raised or maybe that shows my age-- i don't know. i wouldn't be comfortable with her paying. maybe after dating for awhile and it is a serious relationship. i would feel like- don't know how to explain it- i want to please her, take her out show her a good time- show her how much i care???????
2007-08-23 21:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, i feel guilty if he always pays. I would definitely say take it in turns or spilt. If he persists then don't push, you wouldnt want to offend. :)
2007-08-23 22:44:57 · answer #10 · answered by mellybelly101 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋