this guy just said he was figuring out 'relationship stuff' (and he's in a relationship with me) when i asked him what he was doing.. then he said not to worry after i guess i sounded worried. he just said: don't worry, everythings fine. but then that makes me want to worry... :( i don't know what's going on.
2007-08-23 13:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it really means not to worry then Why did he even bring that up?? to me that means worry...
also, this relationship is new... like we are on our 3rd day only.
2007-08-23 14:23:08 · update #1
Yeah when a guy says that, it brings up curiosity. Being open is very important in my opinion. I can't stand when a guy holds it all in; you don't know what he's thinking!
2007-08-23 14:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you worry? You don't know what he's doing, thinking or feeling. But still, why should you worry? He is allowed to think about things. If you are concerned about your relationship with him lasting, all you can really do is pay attention to what he says and what he DOES. But you shouldn't worry. If he doesn't do or say the right things you can always break up with him.
2007-08-23 14:06:59 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you not to worry it usually means (to my understanding) that they don't want to tell you what they are thinking cos he doesn't know maybe about his feelings and doesn't want to worry you, so he's thinking it over by himself. I guess all you can do is trust your instincts and make sure he doesn't take you for a ride, if you feel like your relationship is rocky then talk to him and say you won't take "don't worry for an answer".
2007-08-23 14:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would worry if he dont want to talk 2 me about it && we suppose 2 b n a relationship because thats like leaving you in the dark && u dont even know whats going on...so tell him how you feel bout him holding back 4rm u like dat
2007-08-23 14:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by mrswas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite unclear.... what is he doing that shows he's "figuring out relationship stuff"?? Is it something that hurts you, shows disrespect? Is he growing apart? I think you need to be more specific so we can tell whether you should worry about his behavior and actions or not...... his argument just sounds weird tho.
2007-08-23 14:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Lprod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally that really means don't worry, everything is fine. Don't sweat it. Guys tell the truth about that. Like if a guy comments you, he means it.
2007-08-23 14:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Samson 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well does he always tell u not to worry? Does he open up to you?
if hes open/honest and talks to you about stuff, i wouldnt worry, id listen to him. Im a worry wart and my bf tells me not to worry about stuff.......so...
unless u have reason to believe that hes just saying that to hide something from you, dont worry. Actually, dont worry anyways because if it was a big deal, he would have told you right away
2007-08-23 14:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mom to one cute boy! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋