so this guy and i (we have been like Best friends for awhile now, and good friends for Years longer).. and we have been fliriting like crazy the past few months.. and he text me Every day... and couldn't go very long at all without texting me.. and all of this liking started out as like a joke.. but then i guess it grew into reality, because he told his best friend that he was going to go after me because he liked me.... and i've Always had a crush on him deep down.. he's like a dream come true to Me.. but anyways.. so i went over to his house the past two nights.. and we just started kissing.. and making out... and it was really good... both nights. but now he Rarely texts me anymore at all ever since that first night two nights ago. he changed his relationship status on myspace and facebook to "in a relationship" though.. THAT very first night.. right afterward.. so that's got to be a good sign right?? but then why does he Never talk to me anymore?? what happened.. did i do something
2007-08-23 12:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a relationship after one date? Geeze, you got yourself a clingy one. -ac
2007-08-23 12:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your first mistake was making out with this guy. If the pair of you knew there was something there, you should've talked about it. You could've said..."I think I really like you". Don't give too much of your emotions until the person recipricates those same feelings.
Now that you have fallen for this guy...ask him how he feels about you. The last thing you need is to stress over why he hasn't called or come to visit.
Good Luck sweetie...you sound very sincere, and you sound like you wish this would be a good boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. And perhaps it is, but you must ask first and see what are his intentions. Sounds like you want to be exclusive with him, he may not want that at the moment.
Abby
2007-08-23 19:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hm.. I cant answer for every guy, But i do kno alot of um.. Sound to me like he was tryin to get some girl.. honestly. But i could be wrong. Maybe after the fiirst two nights it got weird for him since u to had been friends before. The whole not talkin thing.. jus let it slide. If he wants to he'll definatly tex u back. Don let it get u down
2007-08-23 19:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like you did anything. so, it sounds like he really likes you! now that hes been texting you constantly, you should start texting him, so he isnt always the one texting you and so he doesnt feel like hes constantly "at" you. ask him about the relationship status on myspace and facebook though... i would but AFTER you start talking to him a lil bit. just act natural, and dont act like n e thing is different. if he ignors ur txts anc calls, try *67 the call so he picks up.
i hope this is helpful!
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2007-08-23 19:37:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask him about it. Maybe you unknowingly did or said something that made him think you're not into him, or maybe sometime during the making out his feelings changed somehow. I think the best thing to do is just be straightforward and ask him why he quit the talkin'. It might be as simple as a misunderstanding.
2007-08-23 19:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably texted you so much whenever you weren't dating because he wanted to make you think that he liked you. And he probably figures that since you are dating, that there is no reason for him to bug you as much. If you liked him texting you so much, then just ask him why he doesn't do it anymore and that you miss it. I hope it all works out!
2007-08-23 19:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds like hes ether scard to do anything right now or hes probably to busy finding you a girlfriend necklace or charm or ring or what ever could be but you started kissing how old r u!!! if you email his and your myspace to me (trust me i dont have a myspace and dont keep it privet if you do ill just sign up) well hope thta help i guess
2007-08-23 20:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by flowerkitty11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u start texting him again and see what happens you neva no he might be busy or sumthin went wrong with his phone. dont get your hopes down give him a chance be patient things like this take time
2007-08-23 19:37:25 · answer #8 · answered by prittychrisy1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awesome, why are you using a male yahoo profile as your ID. Maybe that's part of the problem.
2007-08-23 19:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Sounds like he is either feeling like he made a mistake, or just scared to move any further.
2007-08-23 19:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋