Ok this is a hypothetical choice! Say there are two guys and they are both equally hunky and say they love you. Guy A is a former olympic gold medallist, an outstanding member of his church, a brilliant scholar and a highly respected author in his field. He is sophisticated, well travelled and always impecably dressed. He's never been married, isn't very close to his family and not sure if he wants kids. He cares a lot about always impressing his snobby friends. Guy B drives a bulldozer for a living and always wears the same redneck clothes. He plays poker every weekend buy nearly always wins, so he's actually rich but chooses to live in a trailer anyway. He's really almost as smart as guy A but not so ambitious, because he just loves bulldozers. He comes from a very close family has kids from a previous marriage, and he's a really good father.
2007-08-23 11:08:27 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the trailer might be temporary :)
2007-08-23 11:18:38 · update #1
Guy B...for sure! I can'y stress enough how important it is to be close to family.
2007-08-23 11:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Boston Pattianne55 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hard question. I don't think I would marry either of them... they have some good qualities each but I think I would prefer just to be friends with the both of them. I think the bulldozer guy would be more fun to hang around with, but that's all since he has kids from a previous relationship.
2007-08-23 11:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
B, of course. You just would have to accept your hubby for the way he is. I don't think liking bulldozers and wearing bad clothes really would be enough for me to choose Guy A. If you had to live in a trailer, you could live in a really tricked out 2-story one. That would be really cool!
2007-08-23 11:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Just a Dog Chasing Cars 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend on what your long term goals are and the life you want to live. Personally, I would rather have a guy that is down to earth and knows what responsibility means....and doesn't shy away from it. They both say they love you but which one puts you first? If guy A cares more about impressing his friends than impressing you...I'd say he's out of the running.
2007-08-23 11:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by littleone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not hating on hispanic people, I love them myself, but why specifically dating Hispanic? Just date who you like (Hispanic if you want) and don't stress over some random generalization about that group of people. I think there's a danger in believing that there's a type of girl that Hispanic guys are going to go for, because it's going to vary widely from guy to guy especially when it comes to things like personality and lifestyle.
2016-04-01 11:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One goes to church and has never been married, the other gambles and has been married....common girls, its so obvious that Guy A is a better choice. However, if I were a girl, I will go for none of the two (Guy A likes to impress his snobby friends) but since you gals are so complicated and what not, I will cross my hands and see Mr. B being chosen, after all, he is rich! lol
2007-08-23 11:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Torontoman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GUY A. Hands down. Snobbiness goes away w/maturity. Having kids, usually marriage changes that too. And not close to his family, is that a big issue?
2007-08-23 11:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by mariablues 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The information that is missing is how does he treat me! But I'd take the redneck, gambler, bulldozer driver anyday over someone who just wants to impress his friends all the time.
2007-08-23 11:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Jody H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guy B, except for the trailer and kids from previous marriage.
2007-08-23 11:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A. If I HAD to chose. Although, the snobbyness would bug me.
I value ambition and definitely don't want kids. So the "family man" thing is a turn off for me.....
2007-08-23 11:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy A sounds gay and so there are implicit problems with that seeing that I'm a woman. And, who on earth would marry guy B? He's never around on the weekend and he's a gambling addict.
2007-08-23 11:18:59 · answer #11 · answered by Kathleen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋