kevin is 17 teen, i am 16 teen and i really dont know why he keeps on fighting with me prop. bec he in a wheelchair, and when he talks to me he always sared when he talks to me last nite he is fighting with me saying why dont u say love you like all the time and kiss me i said i do always kiss you you dont kiss back then he says i might have cancer he yell at me this last nite i dont kno why we fight i love his guy but i feel like breaking up with him...but i cant bec he might be sick and i love him but we fight like all the time today he told he taking all kind of testes see if he have cancer ....just now like little bit ago he called me saying I HAVE CANCER I LOVE YOU i told him i will be with you alway and he like what ? i said wait what u mean what he siad i am sick u saying i might be with you i siad i dint said that see we fight like all the time what can i do how can i do to stop it ? and what can i do?- i cant see him die ? he told me today he loves me:)
2007-08-23 10:14:41 · 6 answers · asked by me 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
he maybe scared!!! he may not want you to see him go through those types of changes give him a little space but not too much cuz he is going to need you
2007-08-23 10:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie Pie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are diagnosed with cancer they can do and say all kinds of crazy things, especially soon after they are diagnosed and have not yet come to grips with their situation. When diagnosed with cancer is the first time many people realize they are not immortal and this would be especially true if you were only 17. He is afraid of dying. Try not to hold his bad temper against him. Try to just be his friend and if he needs a little space then give it to him. If he really cares about you he will be in touch. Text or email him and ask what he needs. He might not feel very lovey dovey right now. Main thing is just make sure he can count on you. good luck to you both
2007-08-23 10:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 find out if he has cancer. Some ppl use sickness as a excuse for people to love them. If you Do Not Love him then dont say I love you. It is ok if he loves you and you dont feel the same...you just need to tell him that.
Saying you love someone is easy but meaning it and showing it is hard. You should only say those words if you MEAN it. Even if he does have cancer and you dont love him breaking up with him doe not mean you guys cant be good friends and it doesnt mean that you cannot be there for him in his time of need. Good luck
2007-08-23 10:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly, dear, you need to be a little more sympathetic and a little less needy.
Cancer is very frightening for him - he's afraid of dying; he's afraid of the suffering involved; he's afraid that once you see him sick and hairless and tired from the chemotherapy that you won't be attracted to him anymore or you'll be too freaked out to come near him; he's afraid that watching him die or suffer will be too painful for you.
So he needs you to reassure him and support him. Keep telling him that you love him and will be there for him, and you'll do your best to support him, but he needs to tell you what he needs. The next time he starts a fight, don't take it personally - just pause and take a few breaths to calm down, and then tell him "I don't want to fight with you, please talk to me and tell me what you're feeling and what you need."
good luck!
2007-08-23 10:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very scared. He needs support and his moods are going to be all over the place. You may not be able to be the support he needs. You are very young. If you are going to be there for him, where are you going to get your support when you need it?
2007-08-23 15:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels so awful physically that it makes him be in a bad mood.
2007-08-23 10:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋