i am all at sea abt a guy whos my immediate neighbour..hes abt 7 8 yrs younger than me...and generally the family was far better placed than us till we moved here abt 10 yrs ago.Now as i understand..his granpa really helped my dad abt 40yrs ago ..when my dad was broke ..which might be the reason we have the adjoining plot of land
Now this guy is sumone who defines the word Nasty and Obnoxious..jealous of me coz he never studied ..and his dad had to spend a fortune on his studies ..The prob is my parents though..who r almost servile to the entire clan..we r new to the area ..and this family lives here for almost 30 yrs
when i talk to my dad ..he shockingly keeps mum..to give u an idea..once this kid even had the gumtion to tell me that thius plot of land that we have was 'donated ' by his granpa to us..I have told all this to my dad..and he just keeps mum to my dismay..hes really servile to all of them..and they keep visting him too when ever they need him..( hes a teacher)
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2007-08-23 10:05:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
KAT /NOTNAKED/TWINKLETOES may rot in hell..dont teach me english....i just type fast so miss a few spellings thats all..
as for others..we r on adjacent plots of land..common wall ...i havent picked up ne quarrel till date..but there r other issues too..for eg he has to buy everything that i buy for my home..and its a constant game of one upmanship from his side..may be its his inferiority complex having been a nightmare kid for his dad
i also fear the day i leave..this house is gonna be totally usurped by the family..the way my old parents r..
so plz advise accordingly
2007-08-23 10:24:52 · update #1
i cant confront him guys..coz i know my own parents will turn against me ..its that bad. and my patience has all but run out
2007-08-23 10:37:07 · update #2
Seeing how you are practically a billionaire Mr. McCartney you could move to one of your other estates.
2007-08-23 10:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should be able to get over to the city records office and look up who owns the property and who bought it and for what amount. That is public record.
If you can't find it maybe your father is living on that land non gratis. In other words he never owned the land at all, and living rent free courtesy of the grandfather and if that is the case its perhaps why he is mum on the subject.
Personally. I would think this was a courtesy to your father only. If I were you I would find another place to live and let your Dad deal with this adjoining neighbor.
2007-08-23 17:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your Dad about how he feels. Tell him what you feel.
I would be like your Dad. Help them if they need it. You do not have to listen to everything the guy. You can ask your Dad. You can be polite and neighborly like your father. He is a good example of someone who doesn't let what others say bother him. I like your Dad.
Teach your neighbor that you can be nice even if he is not as nice as you. Don't let what he says bother you. You don't have to invite him to parties if you don't want to, but being neighborly is the best thing to do. You can offer to teach him too if he act like he is interested. You may become good friends. Maybe the guy has learning problems and that is why they all go to your Dad. They sound like they respect him.
Sometimes when people are having a hard time with something in their lives, they like to take it out on others. Don't take it personally.
Do unto others as you would have done to you.
2007-08-23 17:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Was the one word you meant was civil to your nieghbour but the son is not civil? & jealouis because he went & studied something else with which he failed? Did your father build the house or not and if he's 7-8 years younger you can answer back with so what & what differance is it to him Hopefully can get over it.
2007-08-23 17:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do as your dad does. Stop paying any attention to them. Your father probably gets a kick out of what they say and he knows they're not right in the head.
2007-08-23 17:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even told us what the problem is. You're on the same plot of land as these people, and the kid is obnoxious. And? Neighbor kids are obnoxious. That happens. Tell us what your issue is (in fewer words, please) and maybe we can give you advice, but your current post is going nowhere.
2007-08-23 17:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, work on your typing and grammar.
Second, that's their problem. If they're obnoxious little snobs then let them be obnoxiouslittle snobs. Your acting offended or annoyed shows that they got to you and they've won. Don't let them win.
2007-08-23 17:11:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sarbinargh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your Dad is a teacher, then how come you can't spell?
2007-08-23 17:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by wish I were 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not do much since your dad won't do anything or back you up. I would move else where if possible.
2007-08-23 17:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Summer B 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if i could understand what you typed, i would know what to say. since i do not, here's what i will say:
"CHECK SPELLING!!" it's that little button right ^ there.
2007-08-23 17:19:52 · answer #10 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋