Can anyone PLEASE explain this to me?
Out of my close circle of friends, im the single guy. My buddy got married, and they wouldn't shut up about me getting aquainted with one of the bridesmaides. I asked her to slowdance. After we talked a little, but the end of the night, I got her number. She ended up being busy and my friends who hounded me about "going for it", ended up telling me she practically works ALL the time and is off again/on again with some guy, so it's not worth it.
Can I ask you ladies, is there something to miss? I ALWAYs take initiative when talking to women, no one has to CHEER me on. They did here, then all of a sudden, im told this that's she's busy and stuff and I never end up hearing from her and my same other best friend who kept on me about it all night to "go for it" NEVER asked me how it worked out or even if I called her?
This rubbed me the wrong way, and it was a year ago!
Do my friends really have that little confidence in me?
Jesus.....
2007-08-23 10:05:12 · 15 answers · asked by Pep Harris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Right on Dlanker, women like Bluegirl only prove that most of them are conceited, self-important floozies who don't believe in guys being upset simply because it doesn't exemplify the actions of the alpha-male horn dog a*sholes they date and fawn over.
She probably was threatened over the fact im sentimental and I like honesty, since she's arguably so not used to those qualities by who she dates.
This "woman" has a lot of nerve calling me a jerk and idiot in so many ways. Very creative way of putting me down, but I can take solace in the fact thati m in my rights and she wouldn't know tact if it hit her on that pink little hat of hers.......
2007-08-23 10:53:20 · update #1
The girl just wasn't into you and they didn't want to tell you. Don't worry about it. You'll find someone. They just didn't want to hurt your feelings.
2007-08-23 10:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Natty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL !!! I'm not laughing at you, but I know how you feel! I think it's that they don't want to see you alone. The are with someone and want u to be happy with a lady of your own. It can get annoying....REALLY ANNOYING! So just let them know....you're working on it, AT YOUR PACE, so they can chill a little bit. And next time they push u onto someone...just go with ur gut and not with what they're yacking at you about. Good Luck......and there is nothing wrong with being single...you'll know when u find the right...it will happen when it's supposed to and not anytime before then.
2007-08-23 10:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friends just wanted you to have a good time and maybe thought you'd get "lucky" or something.
People often joke about how the groomsmen and bridemaids should fool around before or after a wedding, so maybe it was just good natured ribbing.
I wouldn't let it bother you, I'm sure they meant no harm.
2007-08-23 12:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by Reba 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friends while they mean well sometimes can't break not so good news. I'm sure your friends thought you would be a great match but maybe the chickie didn't want to get into anything. Goodluck! I think your friends had the best of intentions.
2007-08-23 10:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by daynamichelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your intution is good for talking to girls. I think you picked up on all of this with her and that's why you didn't feel the need to talk to her.
Weddings are weird. People act weird. They were probably just more caught up in the excitement of the event than anything about you and your skills.
2007-08-23 10:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by sweets 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they just have too much time on their hands. And they need to grow up - that's the sort of thing 16-year-olds do at the school dance. Jeez!
You need to get over it too. Don't let that bunch of fartheads get to you.
2007-08-23 10:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by SE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it already!!! It has been a year, time to let it go.
She probably told your friends that she thought you were a jerk or a nerd or idiot or something and your friends were trying to protect your feelings from being crushed (because you must be overly sensitive if you are still stressing over something that happend that long ago!!) So to protect your feelings they put it back on her, saying she was busy and stuff....obviously they all know she didnt like you and are being nice friends not wanting your feeling hurt. Be grateful that your mates care enough about you to do that. Some guys would stir the crap out of you about it.
Let it go!!!!!
2007-08-23 10:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i couldn't say what their motivation was, but it sounds like either a bad attempt to hook up the last single guy of the group, or a bad joke on you.
it's over, try to put it behind you.
you sound like a decent guy...just enjoy your life. i don't know if you're 'looking' or not, but if so, be patient - if not, try to ignore your friends
2007-08-24 09:36:07 · answer #8 · answered by SweetPandemonium 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends probably thougt you two would make a good match, but she didn't. So not to hurt your feelings there saying don't bother in a nice way..... Just my opinion.
2007-08-23 10:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by tnca 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just let it go. Because if a women is interested she would find a way.
2007-08-27 05:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by My Three 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋