we knew each other for a couple of months and spent all our time 2 gether and know he is off 2 college should i forget our chemisttry and move on or move on but don't forget because i feel like we will betogether
2007-08-23 08:44:35 · 23 answers · asked by Nala K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the hint and move on to a dude that actually wants a relationship. You shouldn't be willing to take anything less.
2007-08-23 08:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by mowsermae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do one of two things:
1.) Take it slow and hopefully your friendship will evolve into something more (even if he's off to college).
2.) Move on to someone else (but still remain friends with that guy.
My opinion: if I were you, I'd move on. The guy is "off to college which means when he said "I like you but I don't want a relationship" that he probably wants to have "a little fun in college" and see what else is out there. Have you considered that maybe he likes you as a friend and nothing more? That might be a possibility.
But that's just my opinion--it's your choice :)
2007-08-23 15:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out on the weekends, go to his college for a day and shop around with him. Just because you are apart doesn't mean that you won't have a relationship with him. Also, i would give him his space because when he is off at college, some people like to be adventurous without have other relationship at home...hang in there. If it is meant to be then it will happen.
2007-08-23 15:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bird Questions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he doesn't want a relationship then that means he's not in love with you... he's not feelin' you. The fact that he's off to college now doesn't help either. I say, don't neglect yourself or your happiness. Move on for now, go out, have fun, be a friend if he values you. And if it's meant to be, then it will happen someday, but in the meantime, don't get all hung up on him. Good luck.
2007-08-23 15:58:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. What you feel doesn't really matter because what you KNOW IS THAT this other person doesn't want a relationship. This wont be the first or the last so keep yourself available, completely available not just physically, and you will meet your match.
2007-08-23 15:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on but never forget. Life is about changing and you really dont have a choice but to move on at this time. You could miss a great opportunity. He will move on so you should too.
2007-08-23 15:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by HottShorty78 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to take the guy at his word...he's off to college, thinking about a multitude of other matters and isn't stringing you along. Let it ride, move on...if you two hook up another time - another place, fate will have taken its course. But for you to doubt his word isn't very wise at this juncture.
Sincerely,
Grace
2007-08-23 15:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be friends with this person and tell them you want to stay in contact and find out how each other are doing...and in the mean time, develop friendships with other guys and get to know other people with out dating...the more guys you have as friends and the more you get to know, the easier it will be to figure out what you want and you wont have to "break up" with any one or have any one "break up" with you untill you meet the right one
2007-08-23 15:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is always a difficult decision, because you have to think about the future. The best thing i can tell you right now is that you give it time, if this is meant to be then he will come back,
2007-08-23 15:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by happygrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's said he doesn't want a relationship, accept that and move on (and spell out the word 'to')...this life is too short to waste it waiting for someone else to change their mind in favor of you.
2007-08-23 15:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋