I (23) hooked up with this guy (26) in May and have been off and on since. However, we just stopped talking one day and I didn't hear from him for nearly a month. Out of the blue he calls and asks me some random question. Then calls again later then he's texting me and now we have been talking for a week. What do you think his intentions are? (P.S. He sent me a picture of himself and the memo said "will u marry me?" I know he is kidding but do know for a fact that his dying wish is to be married, have a family and build a house).
2007-08-23 08:42:06 · 4 answers · asked by Bird Questions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When we start flirting it gets really intense. Even if he just wants a fling, should I give in? or be the mature one and turn the opprotunity down?
2007-08-23 09:00:55 · update #1
He only wants sex... Dont fall for any of that other crap. Obviously, he's hot other offers on the table. Otherwise, why would he wait so long to contact you? Just move on...
2007-08-23 08:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG no he justs wants to get in your pants in my opinion. The only reason a guy would call a hot girl back after about a month or so is to get some. Sounds like he was reaching for someone to fool around with, no he is being nice again.
2007-08-23 15:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kingbits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had to guess I would say that his intentions are to get closer to you and start a relationship. Maybe he's enjoying the "on" parts of your relationship a lot more than the "off" parts. He likes you, and you should keep talking to him and see where it goes (assuming you feel the same way).
2007-08-23 15:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what he wants.
You should try to find out if he is really serious and, most importantly, make sure you don't get emotionally hurt. He already has a history of irrational behavior...which is never a good sign.
2007-08-23 15:50:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋