im getting angry what should i do?

Question

some kid at my school , hes a little dik, he always says stuff 2 me , i said stuff back got him angry, but he goes hes gonna call all the school boys on me, shall i just fight him 1 on 1 , i aint gonna tell the teachers, i aint a grass.

Answer 1

Take Kung Fu and become a black belt. Then, lay him on the ground the next time he mouthes off to you.

Answer 2

Suck it up you slimy little puke. You need to grow up and learn how to deal with your feelings in a more mature way. Grow up and be a man.

Answer 3

Have you ever tried to just ignoring him. A person will not talk long by themselves. It makes them look real stupid.

Answer 4

First:

This is posted in the Environment section. You will probably get better responses if you post this in the Law Enforcement section. I consider this to be a legal issue not an Environmental issue.


Second:

When I was in elementary school there were several children who exhibited dangerous criminal behavior in the school that I attended.

It took a great deal of persistence on my part to get the teachers and the Principal to take action against those children.

The Principal and the teachers where I went to school did not want to admit that they had a problem.

I will tell you what I did to make the teachers and the Principal finally admit that they had a problem with criminal behavior by some of the children at the school and take care of the problem.

I will give you my recommendation, and that is, first that you do not fight this child or permit yourself to be involved in fights with any of the children.

You have much better things to do with your time than permit yourself to be involved in fights.

Next:

You need to report what this child said to you to your teachers. Also you need to report the fact that this child is encouraging others to harass you.

To show your teacher that you are serious you need to give the teacher your written report as well as a verbal report.

You need to make a written record of this report and keep it at home in a safe place where you will not lose it.

You will need it later because your teacher and Principal probably will not do anything based on the first report.

If your teachers and Principal were that conscientious that they would respond on the first report there probably would not be a problem at your school to begin with.

You will probably need to make a number of reports.


You need to be able to prove that you made a series of reports regarding this matter and be able to show exactly what you said in your report.
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You are entitled to a safe environment that is free from harassment when you are at school. Your teachers and the Principal of your school are legally responsible for that.

Also, tell your parents about the problems that these children are causing for you.

Your parents should contact the school Principal and your teachers and tell them that they need to fulfill their responsibility to provide a safe environment at school for you.

Your parents must make their report in writing as well as verbally. Your parents must keep a copy of the written report in a safe place.

You should even ask your parents for an extra copy of their written report. Keep that report in a safe place.

It is important that you have your own copy of your parent's report. Your parents are busy making a living and are concerned with many other problems.

It is possible that they may misplace their copy of the report. You want your own copy available in case your parents misplace their copy.


If that does not work, call the police and report this. Follow your call with a letter to the police department confirming your converstion and the essential points of your conversation.

This will demonstrate to the police department that you are serious. Also, you will need a copy of the letter that you send to the police department.


Keep a record of your conversations with your teachers and parents to provide to the police. Keep several copies for yourself in case the police misplace the copy that you provided them.

If that does not work, go to the Yellow Pages in your telephone book and look up the Attorney section.

Look specifically for Attorneys that specialize in Personal Injury law and ask to talk to an attorney about the problems that you are having.

When you find an attorney that will talk to you provide that attorney with copies of all of the written reports that you have made so far.

Do not give up if the first few Attorneys will not talk to you.

I guarantee that if you call enough Attorneys one or two will talk to you and will have some very good recommendations for you.

If the case is extreme enough they may even be able to get some money from the school district for you.


Many years ago when I was in elementary schoo there were several children in the school who exhibited a substantial amount of criminal behavior and made it a practice to criminally assault as many other kids as they possibly could.

I had to complain to the teachers, the Principal, my parents and finally I had to call the police myself before I managed to get the school to solve the problem.

Keep complaining as I have described. Do not give up.

Teachers and school Principals often do not want to admit they they have criminal children in their school.

These criminal children do a great deal of damage with criminal assaults on other children.

No adult could function effectively in an environment where they are subject to criminal assaults.

Why should we expect children to have to deal with criminal assaults that we as adults would not tolerate or permit to exist in the workplace.

For children the school is their workplace.

The school as much as any other workplace must be free of criminal assaults and harassment.


I wish you a great deal of success in correcting the behavior of these other children.