My boyfriend bought me this necklace....But it was NOT CUTE...looked pretty cheap
So I broke it and now hes MAD and YELL at me...
So what can HE do to make it up to ME.......i will tell him to read this...
Me:20yrs..
Him: 25yrs.
2007-08-23 08:38:18 · 50 answers · asked by KK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OMG!! u guys r all MEAN...
2007-08-23 08:46:16 · update #1
Hes the one who HURT my FEELINGS...
2007-08-23 08:54:07 · update #2
sometimes we don`t look at the values of a gift that other people gave...at least he gives you something...sometimes people will get mad..and do something that hurt other... if you want he make it up to you..anything you want ...But my opinion is both of you have your own reason to said and to blame each other..if both of you really like each other..just forgive and love each other ...Good Luck
2007-08-23 08:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by TRey 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wait, wait, wait, wait a minute! Did you break the necklace on purpose? Or, did the necklace just break because, as you say, "it was cheap?" Either way, what in the world does he owe you? He bought you a gift, who cares the value? Whatever happened to, it is the thought that counts? Sweetie, you are lucky you even have a boyfriend who is buying you things with that attitude!
2007-08-23 09:11:01 · answer #2 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi..
Instead of breaking the gift, you could have thanked him, but said you would have liked something a little different, would it be okay, if you both went together and exchanged the necklace for a different one..
You really didn't have to get mad and break it..His taste might be different from yours, that's all!
You should apologize to him for being unappreciative(he was just trying to surprise you) and he should apologize to you for yelling..but he was hurt...
Take it back to the store, with receipt..Tell them it broke accidentally, Maybe they will give you a credit toward another one..Next time go shopping together..
Good Luck!
2007-08-23 08:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by howdoilvthee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to make it up to you. You broke it and he has every right to get mad. Who cares if it was $1.00. The fact that he gave you a gift, that should be cherished no matter what. You dn't have to wear it all the time if you don't want to. I think breaking it is a pretty mean thing to do. Are you telling me if your mom got you a necklace like that you are going to break it because it's "cheap"? Maybe it was a moment thing and he thought of you and wanted to give it to you. If you had accept it and wear it proud, he would be happy and proud to have you as his girl.
2007-08-23 08:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pwincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean im sure every girl wants a nice expensive gift and when we get something that is less than what we thought we get upset. I think that the fact that he bought you the necklace is a sign that he cares and atleast he trys. Its a nice gesture. Guys need you sometimes that you give him hints. Like actually be like "hint" "hint" with a smile. That way he would know what you want and not be dissapointed in the end. Next time when he does give you something dont break it because he will get discouraged and something is better than nothing....dont you think???
2007-08-23 08:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by gotitasdepasion 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually it is you who owes the apology. How sad and childish to throw a fit over a necklace. So it wasn't up to your standards. At least he thought enough of you to give you a gift in the first place. Some women only get beatings but poor you got a necklace you don't like. I think to make it up to you he should leave you for a more grateful person.
2007-08-23 08:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by robbedbyafish 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It's one thing if he got you something cheap for a special occasion, like your wedding anniversery for example. But if he just got you something for no reason and you broke it on purpose because you thought it looked cheap, that isn't fair to him. The thing might have been pretty expensive, maybe he just acted on his anger at the time when he yelled. Both of you really need to make it up to each other (him for yelling and you for being unappreciative), and you need to examine yourself about why material things are so important to you.
2007-08-23 08:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Where do you get off thinking HE owes YOU!!!! Did anyone ever teach you it's the THOUGH of the gift that counts not the cost? Did you have parents or anyone to teach you this? Well it sounds like you did not!! Sounds like you broke it just to break it. You brat!!
He needs a new girl because obviously he deserves better than you.
~fishineasy~
2007-08-23 08:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by fishineasy™ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is suppose to be the thought that counts!
My recommendation is he finds a new girl friend who appreciates what he gives her!
He has every right to be mad at you! You are very ungrateful! Not everyone has money to buy expensive things, so again I say it's the thought that counts!
Think how you would feel if he had of done that to you!
2007-08-23 08:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by h20bub 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me like your a spoiled brat and owe him an apology. I guess your name says it all. Get over yourself and tell him you are sorry. With your attitude I wouldn't be admitting to being 20 years old, people might have thought you were 12 and then you wouldn't have gotten so many "mean" answers.
2007-08-23 09:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should he make it up to you? He bought you a gift, you acted like a child, because you didn't like it, and now you want him to apologize? You need to apologize to him. He doesn't deserve someone who yells at him for an act of kindness. We are not mean, because we are thinking about the other person....you should try that sometime.
2007-08-23 08:42:38 · answer #11 · answered by KS 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋