I'm moving from my current apartment to another that's VERY close to his- not even 5 mins away. Currently, I'm 20 mins away. This new place is a nicer, more quiet area & the value is much better than where I am now. The only con is I'll be 15 mins farther from work. Of all the apt communities I checked on this was the ONLY 1 w/ anything ready for move in in a timely manner & that fit my budget. I mentioned the name of the apts to him a few times, & apparently he wasn't familiar with them, or else he would've known they were right up the street from him. I was talking about moving in next week & he said, "so where is it?" and I told him. He seemed surprised & I responded "too close for comfort?", and he said "no". He seemed a lil' bothered. I shouldn't leave out that I've been a little self consioucs in our relationship & I've openly had trust issues w/ him in the past. I'm worried he thinks I want to be "over his shoulder" & that this is a calculated move. How should I address this?
2007-08-23 08:34:32 · 1 answers · asked by his love 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your reasons for moving are perfectly normal and rational. If he cannot handle you living that closely, then he has issues that need to be addressed.
2007-08-23 08:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋