so I was talking to my ex last night we have been broken up for almost 2 weeks now. . .
and I still Love him so much and I don't see it fading anytime soon.
he was flirty with me and I told him I miss him before he went to bed and he said I miss you too. . .
what does this mean?
I don't want to raise false hopes in myself I know what I want it to mean.
but what is your honest opinion?
2007-08-23 08:28:39 · 28 answers · asked by saralove31888 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Welll this can be interpreted in a couple of ways depending on the person. Fot one he might have said it automatically...something like "hi, how r u?""good,u?"
see you respond automatically.
Of he said it slowly and if there was a pause after...something like an akward silence but much shorter.....than most of all he ment it.
If you both have feeling for each other you should takl and get the past behind you....start over...maybe its for the best :)
2007-08-23 08:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by krissy k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's only been two weeks so the feelings are still there. It took me yrs {3} to get over my ex and each time he called we would say "I miss" even "I still love you". Love doesn go away over night. My honest opinion is that since the break up is so recent he still feels for you too. Don't raise your hopes too high but if he misses you he might come back there's a saying "you never know what you have until it's gone". Good Luck ^_^ DJ
2007-08-23 15:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be better for you not to form any opinion on it. It would be very good thought for your relationship if you guys had a talk (if its easy) about it and say what each other feels..
If you really love him you should not stop trying.
Maybe he feels the same way.
However maybe when he said "i miss you too" because he wanted to be kind or he said it more as a friend..
As about the "flirty way" that he was talking to you, the girls who are in love think that boys like them back when its only their imagination.
I say trust your instinct and don't try to fool yourself.
2007-08-23 15:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by nectar... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you two might not have really wanted to break up. It may also depend on what you broke up over. If it was something dumb like a fight over where to eat or hanging out with friends too much, then you might have a chance to patch things up.
If it was over cheating or something bad like that, then it might be a trust issue. Ask yourself, "Was the reason we broke up worth all this pain, and will it happen again?"
if you answer no to both, then see if you can hang out again sometime in the near future. Tell him you want to just see if you can work it out somehow. Good luck girl/ Hope everything works out for you.
2007-08-23 15:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happend to me a couple weeks ago. I was talking 2 my ex and he was flirting and said he still loved me, the next day I was talking to his friend he said he was just joking. after that i havent talked to him at all and you know what? I dont even miss him. but I couldnt stop thinking about him until I stoped trying to get back with him.
joking with somebodys heart is NOT funny!
2007-08-23 15:42:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably misses the idea of you. As in having someone around to talk to. Or maybe he genuinely misses everything about you! Don't get your hopes up. If you are to get back together he needs to see that you can have fun without him and that you are fun to be around... not all sobby and needy. I wish you all the luck in this one. Only time will tell.
2007-08-23 15:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by -Swatty- 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are either of you seeing other people already?
if you are both still single, it sounds like you are still very much in love.
the best way to find out is to just TELL HIM. tell him you love him, and that you wanna know how he feels.
you telling him first will make it easy for him to admit his feeling for you.
and if he says no, then you won't ever have to wonder if you two should've gotten back together. and you can move and get over him without any problems.
2007-08-23 15:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
he might miss being with you and doing all the stuff you guys did together. sometimes it doesn't always mean they want to get back together so you should ask him and maybe even talk to him about you guys getting back together since you really do love him. well hope this helps.
2007-08-23 15:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Adina B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he still may have feelings for you
i mean when you have deep feelngs for someone they don't go away 2 weeks after
if you really want to get back with him try talking to him more
2007-08-23 15:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still talking to your ex? It sounds like he wants to keep you around as a backup in case his other options don't work out. Don't fall for it!
2007-08-23 15:32:27 · answer #10 · answered by sanguis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋