Thing I ever did would highly recommend to any women. We live in modern times, we work, own our own homes and cars, have the children do we really need another child to look after?
one is innocent the other just pretends he is?
2007-08-23 07:23:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Congrats!
I'm sure that you made him very happy!
2007-08-23 07:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had a bad experience and I'm glad u can take care of yourself. However, there are many, many men out there that are not childish and act the way a grown man should. They also take care of themselves AND their families, plus do it without being nagged or asked to. So to encourage all women to divorce is absurd! I will admit there are a some women that should leave their husbands bc they could do better; but this isn't a "one size fits all" situation. So congrats on the happy life you now live, But I'm just as happy within my marriage and I would never change my man for the world! It's about time to give credit to all the good men out there for once (applause!!!!)! It sometimes goes a long way to praise your man...U should try it sometime
2007-08-23 07:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by mrsprincess07 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry, you feel that way but I have been happy married to my husband for 5 years and he does not act like a child, he acts as an adult and parent to our 2 daughters, if that was 20 yrs ago don't you think its time to move on I am quite sure your ex husband is not thinking about you, and just because he acted childish with you then doesn't mean he is still childish now in 2007.
2007-08-29 15:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you did not have a good marriage and have been scarred so much your views have been distorted badly. This might be a good thing for you, but many people still regard marriage as a wonderful thing. Just because you didn't find the right one to make it work with does not mean this is the same for every one else. Many people have, I for one and I pity people with this view.
2007-08-30 23:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound bitter - and that's sad. Sorry that you got stuck with Mr. Wrong - but 20 years later is far too long for you to be celebrating your divorce. You divorced him to get him out of your life, yet you keep him in your life with this celebration of yours.
2007-08-28 06:50:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Fiona sounds like you never wanted to be married!
I'm going through a bit of a rough patch with my missus and i been married 2 years on 3rd September 2007 and been with her for 9 years and i havent given up on my marriage.
DIVORCE is an ugly word!
Still they say us men us nasty well a woman has proved me wrong
2007-08-28 00:41:21 · answer #6 · answered by Diamond Geezer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I divorced a guy 20 years ago he would be the last thing on my mind at this point. I don't think I would remember the anniversary of it.
2007-08-23 09:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Kat G 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, you haven't found anything else to celebrate in the last 20 years? That's pretty pathetic. I've been divorced twice, and don't remember the dates...not even the year.
Get a life, ok.
2007-08-23 08:31:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I dont believe you are happy and that getting divorce was the best thing you ever did, as you said it was twenty years ago, move on
2007-08-30 19:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm in another post you said you threw your husband out 6 years ago.....You really need some help lady....
2007-08-29 00:01:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you - I'm glad you made a decision that made your life better. I also am divorced and it was the best choice - i am now remarried and if i havent divorced my 1st husband i would never be with my man! Have a great anniversary!
2007-08-23 08:01:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋