My husband (soon to be ex) went and has called where I worked (Law Enforcement) Several times to find out details, dirt, gossip etc.,. I have gotten several calls from old friends letting me know, he even went to bar we all hung out at?! We were not together when I was in law enforcement, this was over 10 yrs ago! What can I do to stop him? Legal? Lawyer? Help !
2007-08-23 05:30:47 · 6 answers · asked by hard2fool 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
hey dulce... I worked in law enforcement 10 YRS AGO as stated, and he is not stalking ME he is stalking my past.
2007-08-23 05:46:55 · update #1
Caling on friends or aquaintences is not specifically a crime. He is looking for "dirt" that he can use against you in divorce proceedings. I doubt that he will get much from your colleaques and friends that would be useful to him in court. Your employment records are confidential, as are any medical records. Even a spouse may not see most official records without written permission. Whatver happened before you were married would not be important to the case at hand anyway.
2007-08-23 05:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me You were in law enforcement and you dont even know the answer to your own question. No wonder people get the crap beat out of them all day long the law enforcement peeps dont know what is a crime and whats not. WHAT A JOKE
2007-08-23 12:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cant believe that if you were in law enforcement you would not know the answer to your own question!?!?! YES its absolutely a crime! He is stalking you! You need to get a restraining order right away, and if he doesnt honor that, he could even go to prison!
2007-08-23 12:39:50 · answer #3 · answered by dulcecynd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET A RESTRAINING ORDER. Tell your co-works not to take his calls. You are in Law Enforcement. You can do this and have the resources to.
2007-08-23 12:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Leah M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider a restraining order and get your concealed carry permit and level 2-A body armor in case he decides to go postal and kill you.
2007-08-23 13:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Colter B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your (former) boss about this and get a restraining order. NOW. Then tell your attorney.
2007-08-23 12:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by knoodelhed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋