i really care about him and really love him alot ill do anything for him, and he knows that too.we went out but he treated me so badly, like he was doing anything he could so "i" could break up with him. and he wouldnt look like the bad person, and after all that he was the one that ended up breaking up with me, i really love him even after all that, he knows he means everything too me and now, his asking me out to the movies and things like that, i told my friend " i think his trying to get back with me" and today he said no to me! is he playing around with me? i really love him alot!!!
2007-08-23 03:45:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, he's playing around with you and it doesn't matter how much you love him, he's never going to treat you with the respect that you deserve.
None of this is your fault, but he obviously understand how attached you are to him. You said you'd do anything for him, and he knows this and is taking advantage of it.
It's going to hurt for you, but you really have to break away from him completely. If you don't he's going to keep coming back again and again and continue to hurt you over and over. Don't allow that to happen.
You deserve better, and there really is better out there. You'll find someone that treats you with dignity and respct and you will wonder why you ever wasted your time with such a loser.
2007-08-23 03:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by T the D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't easy, but you need to GET OVER HIM. Since he's aware that you're head over heals in love with him, he'll use that for his advantage. He'll lead you on and use you.
When he treated you badly, he wanted to give you the chance to break up with him. When it became apparent that you weren't going to do that, he took the liberty of ending it.
There are many other men out there that will not treat you like this. Go out and explore. Now is the time to be strong in your independence and prove that you don't "need" any guy.
2007-08-23 03:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by bx01z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely give yourself some time for these feelings to fade. In the meantime...take this time & decide how it is you want to be treated. In my book, anyone who treats me poorly, whether it is for a reason or not, is no friend or love of mine. It may just take you some time to realize that. It does sound as though you are a bit young, so give yourself a break! I assure you when you are ready a man, a term not used lightly, a man will treat you appropriately. So be sure to take advantage of this significant growth period, enjoy your friends & family & just have fun!
2007-08-23 03:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's always happened when you show someone who don't deserve that you love him.
OK, you are loving him, until what time?? until you wake up one day to found him with another girl!!!, wake up dear friend, if he loves you, he would do anything to keep you only for him, but since you are shown a lot of love without response enough back from him, he will do it over and over.
Leave him and one of two is going to happen, he will try to get you back, otherwise he will neglect that, then you have to start over and to enjoy your life the best way should be.
Best regards,
Ahmed
2007-08-23 04:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ahmed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you willing to do anything for a man that you say treats you badly? Where is the love in someone who doesn't seem to appreciate you? This man has to be playing serious games, because from what you are saying, he doesn't seem to care about your feelings, and he doesn't seem to want to be with you. You should think hard about what it is you "really love" about this guy and why you would "do anything" for him when he isn't doing anything for you but making you lose respect for your own self and your worth. Forget this guy, please.
2007-08-23 03:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Melz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 02:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do when a guy is doing this to you is to lay off him.....you don't talk or let him know anything you are thinking or doing just try it for a couple of weeks and see what he does....if he don't come running or calling to you....you don't need him cause he is not interested in you..yes it happens we love someone and they don't love us back you will get over it in time and the right guy that wants and loves you will come along you just have to be patient and wait on him....it will be hard but don't chase someone that don't want you it makes you look really desperate.....good luck
2007-08-23 03:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women seem to fall for the guys who treat us the worst. You don't love him all that much, but you can't have him and it just makes him more attractive. He is a rat. There are plently of nice guys out there. You need to do some growing up.
2007-08-23 03:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by dray28277 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you love him but you dont, girlfriend. We get addicted to being with someone and we are sometimes willing to stay with people who are bad to us!!! MOVE ON!!! He wants you to be his booty call but not his girlfriend and there is NO TELLING how many other girls he's with. He doesnt love you. A man respects a girl a bit more than that when he loves her.
MOVE ON!!
GET SOME SELF RESPECT...and leave him alone. Dont except his calls. DONT CALL HIM.
It's NOT LOVE...you're a relationship addict that's all. Go out with your girlfriends and dont think about guys for a while.
2007-08-23 03:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Take some time away let him realize how much he misses you. I know it will be hard but sometimes we have to take some time to see if the person feels the same way about us as we do about them.
2007-08-23 03:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by Thia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋