I mean, if i could tell yall everythin...it'll make more sense, but don't matter. So me and my boyfriend, we're soon going to enter highschool and well what i found out is that, in the school we are going to, there's more girls than boys... and well i'm afraid and worried that my boyfriend might leave me for some other girl... i've been thinking this might happen too much. i mean really it is serious for me... i love him soo much and well i don't want this to happen wat should i do?? (no- go get someone or a friend to spy on him answers...i can notice that will be a stupid thing)...i need help :'(
2007-08-23 03:30:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean, if i could tell yall everythin...it'll make more sense, but don't matter. So me and my boyfriend, we're soon going to enter highschool and well what i found out is that, in the school we are going to, there's more girls than boys... and well i'm afraid and worried that my boyfriend might leave me for some other girl... i've been thinking this might happen too much. i mean really it is serious for me... i love him soo much and well i don't want this to happen wat should i do?? (no- go get someone or a friend to spy on him answers...i can notice that will be a stupid thing)...i need help :'(
Yall People may be right, it's only a new beginning for both us...so i guess it isn't going to last long....but might as well let him do watever he wants, but i'm tellin yall that he gets crazy when he sees better lookin girls than me (that's what i think...tru though)... so i'm a just stick with my life and not somebody elses...well thanks for all of your help, made me stop thinkn bout it.
2007-08-23 03:54:10 · update #1
No guarantees in life.. Who knows you may like someone else too.. you are at the age to enjoy life.. Don't get stuck
2007-08-30 23:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by RAJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. You took the words out of my mouth. I just started my freshman year in high school, and I had the exact same situation with my boyfriend. I simply told him how I was feeling and he assured me that he loves me more than anything and basically all you can do is trust that nothing will happen. I'm sure that if you two are dating, you've got to be an amazing girl and no guy in their right mind would just forget that. So just tell him how you feel about the situation and that you're worried. See how it goes. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask, I'm here to help! And I can definitely help out a lot since I've been there haha.
2007-08-30 14:53:57 · answer #2 · answered by Advice101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your feelings are normal. You're entering into unknown territory, and you're having doubts about a lot of things. It's ok, but you can't dwell on it.
The best you can do is continue to be a good girlfriend to your guy. Hopefully he loves you and respects you enough not to stray, but if he does, there isn't anything you can do to change that. If a guy wants to cheat, he's going to do it.
But not all guys are like that. For you, it seems like your boyfriend is going to go crazy like a kid in a candy store when he sees all these new girls, but he probably won't. He's probably just as nervous about high school too, and he'll need you for support.
So stop worrying and just enjoy the relationship you have with your boyfriend!
2007-08-23 03:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's young, you're young, someone else, many other people are bound to come your way.
Unless you live in a country where people marry at 12.
Just enjoy your time with him as much as possible, but, like I said, unless you are getting married and starting a family, I do not see why you are worried about losing him, since you will, eventually.
The least you could do is enjoy what you've got, while you've got it.
If this is one of those crazy loves where both of you will be together forever, come what may, I'd like to see that happen, albeit very Bollywood or Korean Love-Comedy like.
I don't know with what tricks women keep or steal men.
All I know is that men are idiots who are willing to be taken by the hand by whoever comes their way, which is also why not many of them will keep holding your hand.
If he is not an idiot, be honest with him.
And be yourself. Maybe one of those few boys would outshine this one?
2007-08-23 03:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by aetheru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel this way. It may happen, but it may not. If he does end up losing interest in you and wanting to pursue another girl, it will hurt, i know. But it is also possible for you to meet someone new as well! Even if there are more girls then boys. If he does end up leaving you for someone else, or even leaving you period, it sucks at first but you can heal and life will go on and you will meet someone else. He may surprise you though and tell you he is amazed that with all these other new girls around, your still the one he wants! Best wishes!
2007-08-23 03:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by j c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im guessing your like 14ish since your not in high school yet so i understand you love him but sometimes if you love some one you gotta let them go and if they don't come back it wasn't meant to be if they do you know htey love you!!!
i think you need to stop worrying if its gonna happen its gonna happen no matter how much you worry if you worry you will stress your self out and you 2 will fight and the relationship will end
you never know you might be the one that meets someone else and wants to break up just play it one day at a time remember hes not the only fish in the sea and broken hearts do fix after time...don't feel you need to have sex or anything like that to keep him a guy that loves you won't make you do that to keep him in your life
good luck!!!
2007-08-23 03:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're both young and it's not likely to last very long. This is just the nature of how things are at your age.
It sounds like you don't trust him very much and you think he's the type of guy that may leave you for another girl. In order for things to work, you have to trust him, but realize that the odds of your relationship lasting through high school are about 1 in 1,000,000.
Good luck and I hope things work out for you.
2007-08-23 03:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by bx01z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he wont leave you. You dont have to worry about him. He will do what he wants to do. If he leaves you for some other girl then you dont need him. You are only going into high school. You have plenty of time. You will make it alright. If not him, you wll fnd the right guy to love you, and he will never leave you. Good luck.
2007-08-23 03:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by Nathaniel G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if he leaves you for another girl, then he didn't have strong feelings for you in the first place, and it's not worth stressing over. What is going to happen will happen, worrying about it and stressing over it will do nothing but ruin what you have at the current moment. Just enjoy your time with him!
2007-08-30 22:39:18 · answer #9 · answered by dediktionworkingdogs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that it will hurt badly if he leaves you, but if he did, then obvious your feelings for each other were not mutual. If you were at a school where there were more boys, you would not break up with him for someone else because you love him. But if he really loves you, he will never even think about leaving you for someone else.
2007-08-23 03:41:03 · answer #10 · answered by ennie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋