ON SUnday I HAve TO go To THis PLace To present an award to someone... My parents are making me go and My ex boyfriend who cheated on me and got this girl pregnant, is going to be there and wants me to meet this chick!!! How do i go about it???
2007-08-23 03:23:25 · 28 answers · asked by monicole2009 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself if you feel comfortable meeting her or even socializing with him. If the answer is no then simply tell him look ____ , I dont really feel comfortable meeting the girl you cheated on me with and got preggers at this time...
If you are like me- then simply suck it up, and go to meet this chick see whats shes all about, while maintaining your fabulousness. Smile and be social, ask her if she knows the sex of the baby and congradulate the couple on the pregnancy. YOU (not that chick and her unborn kid) will look like the star and that ex will wonder why he ever made that mistake! And look as chic as possible- you want them all to want to be you, or want to be with you!!!!
2007-08-23 03:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pam Grier is an icon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head high and be confident, but not snobby or cruel. Show your ex that you are the "bigger person" and don't belittle or mak a fool of yourself by doing something that would make them think you are immature and can't handle the situation. Obviously the relationship between you two is over, so just act like it doesn't bother you and be civil, even if it does hurt. The end will result in everyone having a lot more respect for you for handling it so well! Everyone will expect you to be snide or make a scene, just show them you are better than that! Good luck :o)
2007-08-23 10:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Smarty Pants 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go, and prove that you are the bigger person in this situation. Hold your head high and know that you are far better than some jerk who couldn't remain faithful. Be courteous to him and this new girl and show them who the better person is.
In all honesty, showing someone how well you are doing is one of the best ways to get revenge! Don't give this guy or anyone else the satisfaction of believing they have any power or control in your life.
You are in control, and you have nothing to be afraid of when you go to this event on Sunday. You will be great!
2007-08-23 10:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by T the D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk. Believe it or not but I know somewhat of your situation having been there myself. When I am forced into the same company as him I try not to sweat it. He has become very small in my eyes and given time I'm sure yours will too. Rise above it and don't get petty. No need to be rude and at the same time no need to waste breath by speaking to him. I would try to be as indifferent to him as possible. Don't give him the power or opportunity to effect you. You're better than that.
2007-08-23 10:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by bookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go, handle your business, hold your head up high, smile and know this, SHE is now stuck with the CHEATER not you and as long as there is a child SHE will NEVER rid herself of this man and you on the other hand don't have to worry if you will end up with AIDS or an STD REMEMBER YOU DESERVE THE BEST, ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER Good Luck , BLESSING
2007-08-23 10:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by lety1575 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you stand your ground and be the bigger person! You are better off without him and if he wants you to meet her, simply be nice and keep it moving. Don't allow him to know that you are still bitter because you want to represent yourself well. Don't let him see you sweat because people eat that stuff up. You can handle this. Do what you have to do and be cordial. After all is said and done, go vent to someone if you need to.
2007-08-23 10:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by hamptoncutie204 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd go to the award ceremony and if I happen to see him and the new girlfriend, I'd say hi and then I'd go about my business. I wouldnt stay and talk a long time. I'd just be polite (not bitter) and say something like, 'Hey I see one of my old friends over there, I'll talk to you guys another time, ok?" Then I'd walk away...
2007-08-23 10:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simplely say. no thank you. i mean i am here for my parents to present an award. and it would just be two werid for me? i mean that makes sence right. why should u have to met someone for him? you are ur own person hun u dont need a man to tell u what to do
2007-08-23 10:34:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are forced into meeting her.
Say: Hello ah you poor thing I so pity you.
She will either give you a dirty look or ask why you say that.
Then you can say: It will just be a matter of time before he cheats on you to.
2007-08-23 10:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by Emptiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur beautiful, if u knw ur worth, then u shd b there 2 show d pregnant babe dat shes just got pregnant 4 a "bad luck" dude
2007-08-23 10:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋