I probably asked this question because I am too confused and too afraid that It might be true.We were best friends for not really long time,but I trusted him.I keep thinking about him, does that mean I love him? Every time someone will ask me if I felt in love with someone I will remember him. Every time I will think about being in love I will think about him. We never kissed but we did touched each other many many times, Maybe because we were to afraid to kiss? When I was with him in the middel school I used to have dreams about him having sex with me wich makes it harder for me to get him out of my head.I cant see him anymore because I moved from my country and I cant get him out of my mind.He is sure that what happened between us is real but every time I try to talk to him about it he would just shut me up.He doesn't know that what he did to me made me fel in love with him. And to make it sound more pathetic that was 3 years ago and I feel like I still love him and I will always do.
2007-08-22 21:25:32 · 3 answers · asked by Sadforever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen to me, block out those other people, and just understand what I type, please. Realize that love is the emotion that drives us to feel, so to answer your quest HECK YEA YOU LOVE HIM!!! Don't make something thats so intense and pure, confusing, by trying to get the truth from other people, were lost and confused to, not the best sources. Also understand that the whole idea of falling out of love, getting over, moving on, is sort of BULL!!! You need to learn to simple accept the truth, its not always going to feel great, but the future holds endless oppurtinuites both with him and some one else. Also spend sometime getting to know you, understand you, learn about this world, read some books, science, history, fiction, non-fiction, movies, places, it doesn't matter, live that life hunnie!!! Your a great person becasue you cared so much, don't feel pathetic. It has nothing to do with social ego, besides in this society don't care about what we think!!! Besides its not a product of your pathieticness as its a product of that big heart of yours! Make no excuse for that, but take it as a reason to care, and expand yourself as much as possible. We have the frontal lobe to help us with those big hearts of ours that some of us can actually accept. Good luck!
2007-08-23 10:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you have touched each other MANY times, you dreamed about having sex with him, yeah I really think you LOVE him. You will probubly never forget him. Try talking to him, try asking him out. It could help.
I had a bf and we have made out in a closet, we have touched each other, we have had sex many times.
2007-08-30 11:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First loves last a life time, he may not be in your arms forever but he will be in your heart forever and there is nothing wrong with that. You will grow and have many other loves but he will always be your first.
2007-08-30 05:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋