I recently read that if you don't want to have a relationship, or aren't interested in dating girls-- but only hooking up with them then you aren't bi or even bi curious but just horny and up for anything?? Is this true? And I think in my case it is. My husband and I have been looking for someone to have a 3some w/ but they all want to go out and have coffee or go to dinner first.... I think that would make them feel like a "friend" to me, and I could never get down with a friend! I think it would make it awkward, if its intended to be no strings attached. How do you go about this? Any girls in my situation? I'm not trying to be graphic, or derogatory-- just trying to get some answers! Confuuused.... thanks!
2007-08-22 16:43:17 · 4 answers · asked by mrs.v 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
its nice to see a couple who tries things out
2007-08-22 17:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by ashif_noohu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you would be curious but not nesecarily bi your just very open minded. somone who is bi is attracted to the same sex as well as the opposite. i think the best place to meet somone just for sex is a club. Go to like a bi/lesbian club. Maybe you should consider having dinner/coffee with them though....
2007-08-22 16:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by jokerz_joke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people just want to meet first to see if the person/people are do-able. Don't worry about the label...just have fun.
2007-08-23 05:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i kind of thing so sometimes but i wouldnt know
2007-08-22 16:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by PeachBlossoms18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋