She knows i have been abrasive towards her,and mean and such things,and her to me at times,and she knows that i have a bit of a substance problem,but she will still continue to pass my way at times and glance at me a biyt.I've aapoligized and did so again today,but i know she's still a bit ticked.On her way out she walked by me and smiled warmly and said she will see me next time,what do i make of her behavior?
2007-08-22 14:36:45 · 7 answers · asked by eric a 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I know one thing for sure ... you won't find the answer in philosophy!!
2007-08-22 14:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by young old man 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am answering this question with the understanding that you both are just acquaintances (not b/f-g/f). You see her only at the gym and not socially.
There is the possibility that the two of you annoy each other at times. Therefore you both say things that are mean. However, both of you would rather not have hard feelings toward each other, being that you will be seeing each other at the gym all the time. Hence the constant apologizing after behaving mean to one another.
Or it could be that the two of you do have a certain attraction to each other and have ambivalent feelings, for one another.
Only you can can determine which of my opinions applies to you.
If you would like to take your relationship to a more amicable level and find out if she would too. I would suggest that you ask her out for a coffee, pizza, etc.., and see her response. You will then have the opportunity to talk things out and come to an understanding to have a more pleasant attitude towards each other. For sure this way you will be able to determine what to make out of her behavior.
2007-08-22 22:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on, make no assumptions.
The Will is positive, the Judgment is negative.
2007-08-22 22:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Psyengine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good luck. but I htink you're looking for psychology rather than philosophy.
2007-08-22 21:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by upcoming_author 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do you ask psychology / relationship questions in philosophy?
2007-08-22 23:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by Freethinking Liberal 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I take that as a sign of forgiveness.
2007-08-22 21:49:08 · answer #6 · answered by birdtennis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to avoid her....or better you talk to her that you are not pleasure with her behaviour...be a man..be a true man..
2007-08-22 21:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by farhan s 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋