Why does everyone in my life treat me like crap?

Question

Everyone in my life treats me badly, from my family to my friends, even my associates. Everyone in my life treats me like a doormat. My family thinks I'm a retard, my friends drop me like I mean nothing, and even worse my friends hit on my boyfriend and try to sleep with him. My boyfriend ignors me and treats me like a slave. Does nothing around the house, and I'm trapt here to rot away.

I try to be nice to everyone, and in return, people hurt me, stab me in the back and treat me like dog poo. What's wrong with me, and why do people do this to me.
I'm so sick of everyone in my life treating me this way. I feel like "Typhod Mary", no one even wants to get near me.

Answer 1

Its because you let them treat u bad and take u for granted. Grow a pair and STOP BEING A VICTIM!

Answer 2

I do not know why it happens, but most people have a season of crappy mood. For boys is between 16 and 18. For girls it can be any where from 13 to 20. It varies, but for most it lasts a few months. I guess it is triggered when you realize that one truly understands what you are feeling. You keep yourself surrounded by the same friend, family and even boyfriend/girlfriend, but you feel empty. Like no one even matters and you don't matter to no one. It sucks big time. It does pass, but it sure is not fun. For most people, this feelings fade away as more independence is achieved (getting a job, going to college, joining the armed forces...). Some teens seek in religion for help. And they do get better, but only when they practice that religion with an open heart and not just to meet new people or as a social activity. I cannot tell you that I understand, because it is different for everyone. But I can guarantee that you are not alone. We all had to deal with that season at one point or another. Good luck. I hope you find your peace.

Answer 3

To Tell you the truth You need to Stop Then And Put Your foot Down And Let Them Know You Have Had enough Of there ****. You Need To Speek Up And Let them Here You. Treat Them The Way They Treat You. Not to Be religous or nothing But the bible ays "Do On To Other As They Do You" So When they do That To You Then You need To Do the Same thing Back them them And Let them know what Is What. And Your bf On The Other Hand You Need to Kick His *** out to the Street And tell Him You Are Not taking His **** Any More. Let Him Know You Have Had enough And That You Do Like it Any more. just remember "Do on To Other As They Do One To You" and the Will Get What You Are Talking About Sooner Or Latter.

Answer 4

girl what the hell is wrong with you. You need to first get rid of all the crappy people you hang out with, including the boyfriend, and start focusing on you. Do things that you like to do meet people that are nice to you. You need to drop a person the first time that they don't treat you like you should. No one needs to be treated like a dog. You are allowing yourself to be treated this way by putting up with this. As they say grow some balls and stand up for yourself.

Answer 5

Ignore your family, the way that they get a laugh isn't all that funny. End your friendship with your rude friend, and dump your controlling boyfriend!

Keep being nice, and, eventually, what goes around will come back around, and you will be glad you treated other people good and not like crap, because soon people's mean ways will not be acceptable anymore.

But don't let people walk all over you. Be nice, but when someone does something hurtful to you, don't let it go unnoticed. Tell them that you don't like what they said, etc.

Answer 6

Hun, look. Move away from your family, (your so-called) friends, and associates. Dump your sorry *** boyfriend and move to another state or city. Make a new life for yourself. There are nice people out there, and you're bound to find them. Just be possitive. Don't let anyone bring you down. Keep your keep up and live your life like the happiest person on Earth. Who needs those dipshits anyways?

Answer 7

i know exactly how you feel. i had so called friends i thought were friends do that to me and im also nice. we nice people are treated that way as people take it for weakness. we try to treat others like we want to be treated but it doesn;t work that way. many people will use you and not even care. you need to start saying no to others and stand up for yourself and dont let them push you around. they will try you for awhile but when they see you have really changed and your not a doormat they will back off.

Answer 8

Life is all about choices. You don't choose your family, but you do choose your friends, boyfriend, and where you work. You choose how to behave, and how to react to others treatment of you. You need to learn how to stand up for yourself and not back down. Get rid of the people that treat you poorly and lower your self-esteem. Perhaps you should look into a "life coach" or therapist.

Answer 9

Show them that you're tougher than them. Don't let them treat you like a slave. If they tell you to go get or do something for them, just say "you have feet and hands go get it or do it yourself, I have a life to" And if i was you, I would leave those friends of yours and find friends who actually treat you right. Stay with that one person who you can trust, and actually treats you right. Hope this helps. :)

Answer 10

well i do not know you, but if i had to take a guess, i would bet that you have never stood up for yourself when those things^ happen to you. if that is the case, then try to be a little more assertive and tell them that you don't deserve to be treated like that. if you have tried that already, then you need to associate with different people.